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GiNgErPaNdErZ ♀️ [18855775] [2011-08-31 20:45:04 +0000 UTC] "Allons-y!" (United States)

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# About me

Hello everyone and welcome to my page. Please enjoy my gallery. There will be very little writing and drawing added from this point on. I have picked up my photography again and want to put it at the forefront. And most of my writings and drawings were created as pet projects with someone who has their own path to follow now.

I am always open to ideas and constructive feedback. As well as new friends.


To any of my old friends on here who are still active, I love you all and have missed you dearly. And to all the new watchers I will hopefully gain along this journey, thank you in advance for all the love and support.


It's so good to be behind the camera again, and so good to have something to contribute to the art community again.

-XoXoXo

# Comments

Comments: 11263

GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to ??? [2016-11-12 06:12:24 +0000 UTC]

I WISH we had those baby box things. But America sucks butt. I did get the cutest diaper bag today though. And have all the stuff ready to be packed for the hospital. I cannot wait for her to be here. I need to hurry and finish her blanket though.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2016-11-12 11:33:26 +0000 UTC]

Hopefully if it's a success here then you guys will adopt the idea as well~

Nawwwww hope it isn't too heavy haha
Do you know when you will have to be in hospital?

Also just curious, have you thought on how you will give birth, like in a bed or a pool or go all natural with no gas etc?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2016-11-17 17:48:18 +0000 UTC]

We get an epidural here. In other words, giant needle in your spine full of numbing meds. In other other words, fuck that. I would be more than willing to have the baby at home, but I am goinf to be in the hospital just to be safe. If something were to go wrong, the help I needed would be right there in a second. She is due January 8 so on the 7th and 6th, I will be doing a lot of walking to make sure she is on time. Only like 10% of babies come on their actual due date. Abd hers is a very important date for us and her godmother. Also, we got her 3D ultrasound pictures Tuesday. The doctor was in love with her and said she was just the cutest thing.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2016-12-19 12:29:08 +0000 UTC]

Oh my........ I hate needles........ boy that sounds harsh ;_; I hope that you have an easy birth so that you don't have to have that needle Awwww nothing is going to go wrong Your baby is a new year baby and those are lucky babies~

I'm so excited, it's like such a great thing and to really make 2017 special

lol babies come when they please, they rush for no one

Awww....... I know she is going to be an adorable and beautiful baby because she is already so special and has already touch a lot of hearts

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2016-12-24 06:24:54 +0000 UTC]

My managers and a co-worker and a lot of customers have brought me gifts for her. She is kicking and punching more than usual and kicked one of my old co-workers. (She has never kicked anyone else before.) 

I put her ultrasound up on Instagram. My account is public so you can look at it even without having an account. Just look up wethe_beans. The picture is a bit dark but you can see that tiny baby face. 

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2016-12-24 11:20:36 +0000 UTC]

Awww

She is showing you guys that she is fit n healthy and energetic too
I guess she is getting more fiesty because she is excited and can't wait to come into the world and put faces to those sounds she hears haha

Awww I saw, she is very cute even though it's dark. It's so magical, how we can see how they look with Ultrasound, makes it even more special

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2016-12-25 07:12:54 +0000 UTC]

I really open she does it snore like her daddy... Goodness... There should be a picture on there of him too. If not, I know there is one on my other account but I cannot recall the name. She has his little cheek bones. And apparently, my nose. The doctor took so many pictures. I am so happy that that machine could give up pictures like that. We have one of her at the end making such precious grumpy faces. I am so excited to smoosh those fat cheeks.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2016-12-30 12:27:53 +0000 UTC]

lol my sister snores like she is stuck in a desert lol and my neighbours you could punch a hole through the wall

I read that if you lay on your side then you don't tend to snore as much Though she should be a sound sleeper, because babies love nap time~

Awwwww what can I say.... this is why life is so precious, so beautiful. For moments like these

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2016-12-31 15:38:44 +0000 UTC]

Yeah, middle of the night, I have to shove him until he rolls over. Or smack him enough to make him wake up to tell him to roll over. His snore gets so bad that it sounds like he can't breathe. If she gets that, I am just going to give up. I can't handle it from the both of them.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-06 12:11:29 +0000 UTC]

Has he been to see a doctor? Also have you tried earplugs/muffs?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-06 13:55:51 +0000 UTC]

He needs to. He was actually talking about it last night.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-07 14:15:47 +0000 UTC]

I hope he does for everyone's sake~

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-07 15:08:33 +0000 UTC]

Dude, there is so much snow outside. I am grumpy. And we have a baby due tomorrow. This snow is not going to be gone by then. Uhg.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-07 16:46:04 +0000 UTC]

Really, that is not fair at all... Is your home nice and snug?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-07 19:17:40 +0000 UTC]

It is but I wanna go out for a walk to make sure the baby gets here on time and all that but I do not have the right shoes to walk in the snow or anything.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-08 18:51:15 +0000 UTC]

Could you get someone to walk with you?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-10 19:15:28 +0000 UTC]

TODAY IS THE DAY!

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-10 21:47:54 +0000 UTC]

HOW MUCH LONGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BABY COME, BABY COME, ABIGAIL COME TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-10 21:49:06 +0000 UTC]

Inducing because of high blood pressure. Could be up to 24 hours. But it has begun.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-11 10:00:42 +0000 UTC]

YES!!!!!! not long now hehe

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-13 00:40:19 +0000 UTC]

Labor took 29 hours. The pain is beyond comprehension. Go look at my Instagram again. Got her picture up there.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-13 18:27:21 +0000 UTC]

She is sooooooooo precious... perfect
What does she weigh and what is her whole name, what colour eyes does she have?????????
Hope she grows red hair hehe

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-13 21:40:35 +0000 UTC]

Lilith Evelyn O'Neal. Six pounds 15 ounces. Her eyes are dark blue but so are most babies when they are born. So it might change. Her hair now is blonde-ish. Again, might change. We just got home. I have been in tears all day because I have been so excited for this moment. It took so long. And so much changed in nine months. She is so beautiful. So perfect. It hurts. I love her to death.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-14 15:48:19 +0000 UTC]

Dawwwwww Lilith is such an adorable name and little baby will be the first person I know called that. Just makes her extra special She is the perfect weight, not to small, not to big hehe

That is true haha
I was soooo blonde when I was a baby, people thought I was bald, then in Primary school I went brown, like a click of the finger~

Awwwww everyone here is so happy that you are bonding well. I just hope she is a keen sleeper as to let you catch up on some much needed rest So daddy, what does he think? Is he going to do tons of selfies for your album with little Lilith????

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-14 16:36:37 +0000 UTC]

She had a rough night last night adjusting to not being at the hospital. It was crazy, a little before we had her, we were at the DMV and they always call you by numbers. But they called one person up by name. A girl named Lilith. Chris and I both looked at each other, then at my belly, and were like "That was not for you!" Only time I have heard it anywhere else. He is doing really well with taking care of her. And he snaps pictures all over the place. So do I. She was just fed and changed and is passed out in my lap as we speak. She was much smaller than we thought she would be, since she was two days late. All her clothes are too big for her. But I wanted a tiny baby and I got it. She is just to die for.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-14 18:51:04 +0000 UTC]

Awww she will soon get used to it hehe

That is a good sign~ Really strange but cool story to tell her when she grows up
Does he help with changing her? Also really hope that if she wakes in the night, he would go check on her >w<

Awww how sweet She will definitely grow into them. Babies tend to start small then just blob out hehe totally natural~
I agree she is such a cute little baba hehe

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-14 18:55:02 +0000 UTC]

He is terrible at waking up. So I check but she is in the room with us. He is still learning to change. He feeds her. Cuddles her. The two of them together are so beautiful. I have been crying happy tears since we got to leave the hospital. I am so in love.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-14 19:02:23 +0000 UTC]

lol he will get used to it~

Aww of course, I wasn't thinking haha Do you have her cot next to your bed?

Oh! so will you not breastfeed her? They say it's good for bonding hehe
Awww same here and when I told my mum, she went straight into a very good mummy mood haha

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-14 19:05:00 +0000 UTC]

I tried that but she did not take to it too well. So we will be getting a pump and trying that. She needs the nutrients. Being a mom is hard.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-14 20:11:25 +0000 UTC]

Oh! awww well the pump will be really good. Not so rough on the nipple and you can control the amount of milk from each breast to keep em balanced~ Hope she takes to that

I agree and you will be a mum forever now hehe but that is a good thing ^^

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-14 21:06:27 +0000 UTC]

I can't wait to be healed up. These stitches are no joke. And my back is sore from where they put the needle.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-15 10:59:56 +0000 UTC]

ow ow ow have they given you some safe painkillers or something to ease the pain?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-15 11:03:24 +0000 UTC]

I can take ibuprofen but that is mostly for swelling. Have a cleaning spray. But nothing stops the sting when you pee.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-15 14:35:14 +0000 UTC]

shoooo owie how many stitches did you get and how long roughly do you think it will take to heal completely?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-15 14:38:21 +0000 UTC]

Eight. In random places. Takes, they say, at least a week.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-15 17:04:13 +0000 UTC]

Gosh! that is a lot... still make sure to get plenty of rest~

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-15 17:48:04 +0000 UTC]

That IS a lot. I'm going to go post a couple more pictures of her on my Instagram. I must share her adorable face with the world.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-15 19:42:40 +0000 UTC]

Awww I saw and I agree the world NEEDS to know how beautiful she is~
You should put up a family photo

She really looks like you hehe

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-15 20:12:51 +0000 UTC]

I will soon. Me and her are twins as babies.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-15 21:18:26 +0000 UTC]

Awwwww I can so see that haha

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-15 21:24:10 +0000 UTC]

My aunt brought me my baby book and yeah. We are the same person. Daddy was having so much fun looking at it. Poor child is in a food coma right now. She has been asleep all day, Daddy came home, she got fussy, he fed her, now she is out again.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-15 21:27:17 +0000 UTC]

That is so cool~
My folks don't have any photo's of me or my siblings. Which is a shame because I am so curious to know what I looked like as a baby ^^

Will you start a baby book?

lol food coma, been there...... good times
So is she settling now? When will it be okay to take her outside? Like in a couple of months, when it gets warmer?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-15 21:31:47 +0000 UTC]

I am going to make a book for her. If I don't, her dad will. He has already said how he wants to. I love to take pictures and collect things so it works for me. And she has been out once already. We took her out to get my paycheck yesterday and ran to the store. It was only a little chilly and she needed a little blanket. It may be January but Virginia weather is weird. Went into the hospital and there was a few inches of snow on the ground. Got out after three nights and there was nothing. And right now it is really nice out. We will limit how often she is out for the first month or so though. Too much overstimulation can be bad.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-18 14:39:27 +0000 UTC]

Awwww that's super

lol I agree the weather gets more and more peculiar as time goes by

Yes that is true. Here they do a beach school. Well it's in the next big town from me. (60 miles away) It sounds like an awesome idea. They get pre-school age children and teach them to swim and take em on nature walks and get their hands dirty with nature things. It is a success there and they were talks about making outreach groups for communities that live far away.

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-18 14:43:57 +0000 UTC]

That is a really cool idea. I wish we had something like that here. She will need to learn to swim and all that. Her mommy never learned.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-18 18:05:17 +0000 UTC]

Aww I can't swim either... but you could go to mother and baby classes at your local pool~
The water isn't deep, you could stand in it. Babies are natural swimmers but will need to continue to learn because they kind of forget how as they get older~

How is she now and you of course?

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-18 18:53:07 +0000 UTC]

She is being a fussy butt. But she let me have a nap, which I will always be very grateful for. I am healing up slowly but steadily. Still hard to go up and down stairs. My legs get so tired. Hers do not though. She likes to kick and punch.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-18 20:42:37 +0000 UTC]

Awww she is such a sweetie haha

That is very good. Make sure to do these kegels, to strengthen your pelvic floor. It comes with other important benefits~
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_ex… Just in case you know not what I mean

There are many kinds of exercises so you can read up about it. I only suggest because you have just given birth and they say that it helps regain strength down there. If you still have contact with your midwife, maybe ask her see if she recommends~

lol she is only exercising her muscles She is eager to get on her feet, but she doesn't realize that she is a bit early XD

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GiNgErPaNdErZ In reply to twilightlinkjh [2017-01-18 21:21:29 +0000 UTC]

You need to look up my Facebook. I have so many pictures of this kid up there. Way easier than Instagram. And I could care less about the muscles right now. I am more worried about the fact that my boobs are leaking so bad. This tank top is soaked. Uhg.

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twilightlinkjh In reply to GiNgErPaNdErZ [2017-01-19 11:53:20 +0000 UTC]

Is your facebook public access and if so what is it called?

I don't have a facebook account, but my mum has one ^^

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