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RainbowGlambert [2019-03-07 20:10:47 +0000 UTC]
How about if they have a crush on their best friend but still like being their best friend
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-09 18:37:04 +0000 UTC]
Lol nice. But they eventually start dating?
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cottelini In reply to RainbowGlambert [2019-03-09 21:30:06 +0000 UTC]
Yes, they start dating a couple months into their friendship. Robin didn't want to advance the relationship until he knew Jay was ready.
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-10 17:18:20 +0000 UTC]
That's awesome and really sweet of Robin to do that. But I think platonic relationships can be as strong and are as important as romantic ones. Are Robin and Jay ace?
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-11 14:36:59 +0000 UTC]
That's awesome. Would it be correct to guess that they are from the story you mentioned? Also I think I could be aro or demi.
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-12 18:02:37 +0000 UTC]
Yay I guessed right! I agree with you about figuring out who you are. But for now, I am going with panromantic ace. If you don't mind me asking how did you know you were ace?
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cottelini In reply to RainbowGlambert [2019-03-12 21:57:10 +0000 UTC]
I found that when girls would swoon over guys taking off their shirts I felt nothing. I felt a bit uncomfortable at best. I'm not sure if I've ever been attracted to a girl that I met but any feelings I had towards them were vague. Asexuality isn't a one-label-fits-all. There are sex positive aces, sex neutral aces, and sex repulsed aces. Personally I tend to lean towards sex positive but I've had so many varying experiences that I'm not totally sure. At the end of the day I know that my feelings around attraction r different than most people I've spoken to because my feeling r so vague and at times even nonexistent.
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-13 11:56:04 +0000 UTC]
I agree about asexuality being a spectrum. As far as my case, I like shirtless guys but they are only aesthetically pleasing to me. I'd say I'm sex positive but prefer not to engage unless I have a strong emotional bond with the person. I prefer kissing, cuddling, and holding hands over sex. Does that make sense?
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-16 13:05:04 +0000 UTC]
I get what you mean. Lol take your time figuring it out. You said you're in a QPR?
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cottelini In reply to RainbowGlambert [2019-03-16 20:39:24 +0000 UTC]
No I am not but I wouldn't mind trying one out
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cottelini In reply to RainbowGlambert [2019-03-17 20:24:27 +0000 UTC]
Hahaha yeah I guess. My brother is a lot older than me so he was into anime when I was really young. I watched stuff like Fullmetal Alchemist, FLCL, and Inuyasha. It's hard to say which I watched first
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-18 12:55:54 +0000 UTC]
Lol cool. Pokemon was my first. Have you seen Ouran High School Host Club or Yuri on Ice?
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RainbowGlambert In reply to cottelini [2019-03-19 14:11:07 +0000 UTC]
Cool. I love both. How did YOI look like queerbaiting at first?
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