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DCJBeers β€” One year today without my Sister

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Description And I have never felt more alone in my life!
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neuroscope [2023-06-15 07:52:38 +0000 UTC]

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E-Ocasio [2020-02-06 00:45:04 +0000 UTC]

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this here. You looked so cute together.
I often wonder if we'll find our loved ones again when it is our time.
I'm happy I get to see you All those months I was worried about you and kept praying for you (I still do), and for Darrell and others here.

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DCJBeers In reply to E-Ocasio [2020-04-16 07:04:27 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so very much for the prayers, they have been need , with my recent trip to the hospital! What a nightmare! Yes, my sister and I did go together like a salt and pepper shaker set. I miss her very much! I thank you also for your condolences, they mean a lot to me. Yes that is me, try not to get frightened! Your such a good friend! Β Β 

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E-Ocasio In reply to DCJBeers [2020-04-16 14:40:46 +0000 UTC]

I can imagine the fights between you two. My parents did have other children but I consider myself and only child, as that's how I grew up; my grandaunt and grandparents raised me.
I still miss my grandparents a lot, they were basically the only real family. There are other living blood relatives but trust me, just because you share some DNA with others does make them your family. They have never been involved in my life in any way and know little or next to nothing about me.

You look like a very nice chap, in fact you do look a tad like actor Sean Penn.

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DCJBeers In reply to E-Ocasio [2020-04-23 00:21:49 +0000 UTC]

Oh yes, how we fought! She thought nothing of stabbing me with a fork! I miss her so much. I have no one to call to tell any news to. She was my go too person.

I feel the same way about my half brother. He will not write, call, or anything. It's like not having a brother. I do have a half sister and we talk all the time. (She lives in Iowa) But still Alene Marie was the closet I had and now she is gone. Hopefully in heaven.


But you are correct. Just because someone is related by blood does not necessarily make them family!

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E-Ocasio In reply to DCJBeers [2020-04-26 14:18:21 +0000 UTC]

I'm sorry that you're so alone without her.
I still miss every now and then my grandparents, and my aunt has already one foot on the grave, she's 91! I fear I don't know what I'll do with myself after she's gone. All I have is this house and I have no job nor income of any kind.
Keep in touch with your half sister. if your half brother does not want any communication or contact with you, let be so.
I have cousins, they live nearby. They haven't talked to me since I was in my late teens., and there are three or four more from my biological mother's side that I only saw when we were around 5 years old, and never saw them again. No one from my mother's side of the family ever looked for me, and well, neither did father's. So these days I think and feel that after my aunt dies, if I died too, it wouldn't be so bad.

I would have fulfilled my mission of being the new son my grandmother wanted and the son my grandaunt never had.(she never married).
I've been so alone for so long, and always rejected by everyone. I see no point in being alive after my aunt's gone. All dreams I had before about so many things I wanted to do are shattered. Many opportunities missed.
So sorry if I bring you down, but I have no one to talk about these things here. Much less anyone who could relate or understand. My apologies.Β  Β 

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petronellavanree [2020-01-23 05:27:21 +0000 UTC]

Dearest Dennis, thank you so much for sharing this beautiful and special photo with us.
The hardest part of loosing someone dear is learning to live without them, and the emptiness that's left inside our hearts when the go is sometimes unbearable.But know that she is watching over you all the time.....
Some days I just sit and remember, my dear mum and dad, my brother in law , who past last week at 54 years of age....
Missing someone in your heart is telling you how much you love her, for always.....
Thinking about you DennisΒ  Β 

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DCJBeers In reply to petronellavanree [2020-01-23 10:01:15 +0000 UTC]

Thank youΒ  my dear friend!! I did love my sister so very much. Not while growing up though. she was 13 months older than me, something we called Dutch Twins. I have my nephew with me. I really wish he would grow up and do something at 32 years old.


Yes, you hit the nail on the head, learning to live without them is a rotten task! I seem so empty. out of all the people I have lost in my family, even my mother, My sisters death is taking the biggest toll on me.


I understand and feel for your own losses!!!


I have been thinking about you very much because of all the fires down under! I hope that you are safe and sound!! And thank you for adding this photo to your favorites!!Β Β Β 

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petronellavanree In reply to DCJBeers [2020-01-28 00:46:34 +0000 UTC]

By the sounds, we have something in common. My sister is 15 month younger than me and they always ask if we are twins. We look like a leaf from the same tree haha...

People have different ideas nowadays, they stay home longer and sometimes can't see the beauty around them anymore. Don't worry too much, the day will come that he will fly out to do his own thing....

Yes, it can be very hard on our feelings when we loose someone dear, wish you a lot of strength to cope with your loss....Β 

The situation in Australia is soooo sad for lots of people. Heartbreaking to see what is happening around us. We are also affected here, loss of people and nature, houses etc. Sometimes the quality of fresh air is unbearable. Thick smoke....
For now another heatwave to come this week. Hope that summer is finished soon, another 3 month to go.....Β Β Β Β  Β  Β  Β 

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DCJBeers In reply to petronellavanree [2020-01-28 08:06:49 +0000 UTC]

Imagine two of you, Great!


I'll take yourΒ  word on it. I would hope he leaves. I wouldn't mind if he lived next doors to me. But no higher education and no job-EVER, is a disturbing sign!


Thank you for your very kind and loving thoughts, they are well appreciated!! I do miss her!


Rain would be very nice for you guys. I really feel for everyone in Australia,. And I hope that no harm comes to you or yours!!


Thank your for all your kindness my dear friend!!Β Β Β Β Β 

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Canankk [2019-12-16 18:25:07 +0000 UTC]

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DCJBeers In reply to Canankk [2019-12-24 10:55:35 +0000 UTC]

Thank you my dear wonderful Lady!! Merry Christmas! Β 

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HERBERT45 [2019-12-11 23:01:52 +0000 UTC]

I'm so very sorry.Β  She looked like a very nice person.

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DCJBeers In reply to HERBERT45 [2019-12-24 10:54:49 +0000 UTC]

Thank you, she was a wonderful woman! Terrible to grow up with, but we became close. Your very kind! Merry Christmas, and God Bless you!

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HERBERT45 In reply to DCJBeers [2019-12-27 03:00:48 +0000 UTC]

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you, brother.

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DCJBeers In reply to HERBERT45 [2019-12-27 09:56:19 +0000 UTC]

Thank you very much!!

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LadyoftheApocalypse [2019-12-11 19:30:08 +0000 UTC]

I'm so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace with our dear Lord. Amen.

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DCJBeers In reply to LadyoftheApocalypse [2019-12-24 10:53:10 +0000 UTC]

Amen. That is very kind of you my friend! God Bless!! And Merry Christmas!

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halupka [2019-12-11 16:49:53 +0000 UTC]

She still loves you ......

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DCJBeers In reply to halupka [2019-12-24 10:52:40 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so very much. Yes she loves me even more now my friend! God Bless and Merry Christmas! Β 

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halupka In reply to DCJBeers [2019-12-24 22:26:09 +0000 UTC]

Merry Christmas Dennis

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DCJBeers In reply to halupka [2019-12-27 10:35:45 +0000 UTC]

And A happy New year!!

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halupka In reply to DCJBeers [2019-12-27 19:25:27 +0000 UTC]

yes !!! you too

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EnforcerWolf [2019-12-11 15:30:34 +0000 UTC]

I am so sorry for your loss.

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DCJBeers In reply to EnforcerWolf [2019-12-24 10:49:57 +0000 UTC]

That is very kind of you my friend! God Bless!! And Merry Christmas! Β 

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EnforcerWolf In reply to DCJBeers [2019-12-24 16:14:53 +0000 UTC]

Thank you

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DCJBeers In reply to EnforcerWolf [2019-12-27 10:36:34 +0000 UTC]

Your welcome!

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