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mirusra [2012-05-03 20:14:59 +0000 UTC]
love it!
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ResaKomugi [2012-05-01 02:33:45 +0000 UTC]
It could just be strong friendship.
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flyingmerpig [2012-04-19 22:14:57 +0000 UTC]
You're in love, general preference doesn't make a difference in this case.
But you might want to find out if its truly 'sexual' love or love of another kind. I wouldn't think that far ahead yet.
On the other hand it doesn't sound like you've introduced yourself to her yet... Get to know her more first.
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DenkiKaji [2012-04-16 03:40:22 +0000 UTC]
I'm bi and n luv with my best friend, but idk how to tell her.
B strong!!
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Yama-no-K [2012-04-15 03:06:19 +0000 UTC]
Sometimes it's not about whether you're straight, gay or bi. It's about the person.
As a friend once told me, "You love the person, not their genitals."
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magic6jewls In reply to Yama-no-K [2012-04-16 01:19:10 +0000 UTC]
That's how pansexuals think. On the other hand, many other sexual oriented people don't think that way. Straights included. But I think the person should matter more than their genitals.
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Yama-no-K In reply to magic6jewls [2012-04-16 06:38:16 +0000 UTC]
Fair enough. Though it does put out the question of what matters most to the individual in the end, I suppose. Whether they're sexually-oriented people or not.
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magic6jewls In reply to Yama-no-K [2012-04-17 02:10:54 +0000 UTC]
I don't think it's that at all. It's more about how the brain is sexually oriented and how the person was raised.
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Chikco [2012-04-13 14:13:53 +0000 UTC]
your not a freak everyone is diffrnt some peopl feel discust some feel happy you are you
tell her dont regret a mistake 30 years from now you might remember her and regret her if you do
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Frostywinterchan [2012-04-13 03:09:18 +0000 UTC]
You could be bi, or maybe this one girl is special? Who knows. Just know that you are NOT a freak! Everyone is unique in their own way, and trust me, you're in the same boat as a lot of other people too. Best of luck, keep strong
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ravenharlequin [2012-04-12 19:00:22 +0000 UTC]
I completely understand how you feel. I had the same problem a couple of months ago with my best friend, but then she moved to another country. I was in love with her, but I'm not exactly into girl parts. I have so many friends who are lesbian or gay, but none that felt the same way I did. If you need someone to talk to, you can message me.
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Equivamp [2012-03-29 22:46:22 +0000 UTC]
Biromantic heterosexual?
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lildragonbabe [2012-03-27 16:51:37 +0000 UTC]
It's called being panromantic. It has nothing to do with sexuality--it only means that you can have romantic feelings for either sex.
Romantic feelings are not always tied with sexual ones.
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jessie0wessie [2012-03-27 04:29:34 +0000 UTC]
You are a bisexual asexual
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Kryana [2012-03-26 19:14:45 +0000 UTC]
Being x-romantic and x-sexual are two different things! You might just be sexually attracted to men, but able to develop romantic feelings for other genders as well. There's nothing wrong with that!
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iLOVEpower [2012-03-26 17:43:08 +0000 UTC]
Maybe you are Straight Pan-romantic, or Bi-romantic, or maybe some thing else entirely, just go with the flow and see where you end up
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5x5shadow5x5 [2012-03-26 17:24:13 +0000 UTC]
Maybe you're asexual?
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Hakudoushii [2012-03-26 16:46:05 +0000 UTC]
Close-minded, more like it.
I'd stay away from all LGBT people if I were you, especially the L & T.
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shinedust In reply to Hakudoushii [2012-03-26 23:20:43 +0000 UTC]
What's wrong with LGBT people, especially the L & T?
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gaarakamaru [2012-03-26 10:37:00 +0000 UTC]
as Dexpo said, it's possible to be romantically attracted to someone without being sexually attracted to someone. Get to know her better and she will know you exist! Anyone would be flattered by someone clearly wanting to spend time with them, be confident and befriend her. When you're friends, it's easier to talk about things like attraction and find out if there's a possibility of reciprocation.
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BlossomsOfSorrow [2012-03-26 09:50:06 +0000 UTC]
A while ago, I could have written this secret.
It's not important whether or not you would be able to/want to have sex with the person. Love is about a lot more than that. (:
On the bright side, this is probably just a stage. You might find out later that you are completely and utterly attracted to men, or you could find out that you are attracted to women. Possibly you could realize that you're attracted to both or something in between.
The important thing to remember is that you don't have to label yourself not now, not ever. There's no need to keep desperately searching for a label. You do you, and eventually you'll figure out what you want.
If you need to talk, feel free to send me a note.
Best of luck. (:
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ThousandCookie [2012-03-26 08:15:19 +0000 UTC]
Alternatively, you could just be confused.
It's natural. What happens happens, don't stress too much about it.
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DestructoDee [2012-03-26 07:41:43 +0000 UTC]
Maybe you're bi-romantic, but hetrosexual? It means that you only feel sexual attraction towards males, but you can be romantically attracted to(i.e. fall in love with) both genders.
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ForeignButterfly [2012-03-26 07:39:44 +0000 UTC]
You know..I had had this sorta problem once. Note me if you want to talk about it.
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