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Crawling-meower [2009-05-14 12:41:36 +0000 UTC]
How does the fact that you are you make it impossible for others to care? Are you such a terrible person? Cause i know at least a couple of people who can genuinely care about some downright monsters.
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GirlWithAHat In reply to Crawling-meower [2009-05-14 19:10:01 +0000 UTC]
Maybe they don't want others to care on a certain level, so they make it impossible for others to do so.
I do that sometimes, unintentionally.
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Tepara [2009-05-13 15:32:10 +0000 UTC]
I can relate to this on so many levels
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ixi9003 [2009-05-13 10:12:23 +0000 UTC]
Being you, thats what makes everyone care!
If you ever just want someone to listen I am here for ya~
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ShunketsuKayto [2009-05-13 04:25:56 +0000 UTC]
You matter.
People care because they love you.
You are uniquely you, not just you.
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Bright-Circle [2009-05-11 11:13:26 +0000 UTC]
I've felt just that way, ST. Wondered how anyone could put up with me, much less love me. But love me they did. We are our own worst critics, even when we think we're seeing ourselves clearly. I learned that and hopefully you will too.
Some here are saying they care. I'd like to add myself to that list. It may seem like a hollow comfort, people who you don't know and who don't know you saying they care. But we do. And someday, if you need it, you may see a police cruiser coming down your driveway asking if you're all right--and saying one of our names as the person who called them.
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Jedi-Master-Revan [2009-05-11 01:54:17 +0000 UTC]
We care because we choose to care. Do we really need any more reason than that? I don't. Try listening to some of them ST, maybe they really do care.
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littopampam [2009-05-10 22:10:30 +0000 UTC]
I ALWAYS feel like that..
you know why?...
bec no one shows me they care...
no one shows me the want/need me..
when I say anything such as I care or I love you or like I'm here for you...I really am... and I really do
I don't bullshit on things like that...
It would mena alot of to me if anyone did anything about the words they spoke...
"actions speak louder the words"
I feel like we both need a chang ein mindsets... being so solitary and not believing makes things harder. I'm trying to change I'mt rying to not push away the people that mean most to me... But it's ahrd since all my life I've had to protect myself.
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asphyx-iating [2009-05-10 21:48:41 +0000 UTC]
I think everyone feels that way. But really, think of all the people you care about and how you feel about them. There are people who like you that much and feel that way about you. And that is what I (and everyone else) has to remind themselves every day.
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closingtimex [2009-05-10 17:02:45 +0000 UTC]
You are you.
And you are wonderful.
There is someone out there who will be able to see how amazing you are, trust me.
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snikkio In reply to Jedi-Gemstone [2009-05-11 15:15:00 +0000 UTC]
That's what they tell me...
To ST:
I feel this way a lot- and I'm not a drama-ridden teenager. Just believe them when they say they care, even if you don't understand why they do.
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Vibrant-Impulse [2009-05-10 14:59:46 +0000 UTC]
I care. I don't know who you are, you're right, but I care. I can't cure your loneliness, but I can tell you that by simply being yourself is reason enough for them to care.
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lunexor [2009-05-10 14:50:26 +0000 UTC]
You need to love yourself, so other people can love you as well.
I've always been faithful to that maxim, and I think it applys here. You need to be able to care for yourself, and be able to function without everyone else. And then, people can love you and you can truly care about people.
Its one of those things in live.
I'd highly advise for it.
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adapho [2009-05-10 14:32:32 +0000 UTC]
I feel like that too, I have the hardest time believing people care.
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KingNorth [2009-05-10 14:15:11 +0000 UTC]
ST, they love you. But, before you can feel their love you have to love yourself.
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HighwayAssassin In reply to Little-Dante [2009-05-11 21:13:33 +0000 UTC]
I don't know you at all.
And this may not help at all.
But I care about you.
Just because.
No matter who you are.
(:
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