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I finished it! I just finished my finals for the semester. So this had to take a back seat to my homework

also in the “things I hate: WOMEN 🤬🖕” that is a joke! Inside joke with my friends that I’m a hardcore misogynist

Incase you have difficulty reading my hand writing, this is the typed version V

general stuff: Hi I’m fynn. He/him 5.6” 18 years. Infp/enfp Scorpio sun, Aries moon, Sagittarius rising. ♏️♈️♐️

flags: trans flag, gay men loving men flag. Aroscpectrum flag (or just arospec)

Music: tool. Nine inch nails (NIN). Bush. Korn. A perfect circle (APC). Depeche Mode. Glass animals. Poppy. The offspring. King Gizzard and the Lizard Wizard

things I hate: loud noises. Women >:[ 🖕 (/j). Bad ice (hockey things). heat. The term “boi”

things I like: hockey, history, baking, video games, energy drinks

starred items, facts about me: gay lil hockey boy. I’m fucking gay. I’m semi fluent in asl (5 years). The moon is a big rock and I like it. I flirt with the homies. I like writing letters to my friends. My favorite color is green. I’m a satanist (temple of satan). I have two cats. I’m a lil slimy. My smell gets stuck on my friends (they joke about it a lot). I play center and wing. I love skating. (This isn’t starred but it’s silly. I have two freckles that look like a vampire bite. And my friends joke about it)

Heart items (more things I like): Dracula. Clone wars. Arcane. Object shows. Adventure time. Figure drawing. Sculpting. Painting mini figs. Sally face. Minecraft. Cult of the lamb. Night in the woods.

Items with an arrow (physical features): I cut my own hair. 4 lobe piercings (two on each side) and snake bites. Hella freckles. Gay hands. FAT DICK. bracelets. Shoe size, 9.5-10.

Physical items: hockey stick. Trans tape + binders. Minecraft. Discord. Procreate. Monster energy drinks. Mushroom. Nail polish. My phone and tablet. Blahaj. And my skincare, shampoo n’sfuff (added those because of a joke i and with my friend. You know who you are whore) and my meds. Because medication should be de-stigmatized. And should be recognized as a normal thing

Might just use this as a place to talk more about myself since this has been such a lovely act of self indulgence. (Also as a way to kinda snapshot who I am right now so I can look back on it)

I'm gonna speak with a mixture of how I perceive myself. And how my friends perceive me.
I LOOK MEAN. LIKE ALL THE TIME LMAO. Most if not ALL of my friends thought I hated them at first (I’m sorry I just look like that!) and I only hated one of them! Love you Arch<3

I’m pretty quiet in social situations, but once they get me talking I’m a delight (or a “ray of mother fucking sunshine”) I get along with basically anyone, I’m very easy to talk too, I’m a good listener, and when I get talking I can also carry a conversation.

I get along with adults really well, I was homeschooled my whole life except for junior and senior year, thats when I moved to a boarding school. But I was around a lot of adults, and just generally matured fast. Doesnt stop me from being fuckin stupid sometimes but it’s funny!

Parents have consistently loved me, and ask me to “rub off on their kids” which. I will not do it on purpose! The Only adults who have famously disliked me, are the ones who were disrespectful to me because of my age, gender or sexuality. Or they didn’t like my attitude? But the thing is because I was raised and treated like an adult. When actual adults treated me like a child, I would do the same, or actively ignore them when they just assumed that I would do as they say. I grew up with the moral of “give everyone respect until they are deemed unworthy of it” and I follow that strictly. If someone disrespects me or places themself in a position of power over me without any actual backing other than “I’m older than you and you have to respect the adults in your life” or any other dumb fuck reason. I will be an actual dick to them. I will not listen. I will prove them wrong. My uncles and aunts fucking hate me for it! They’re all Christian and just assumed that I would respect them because of the verse that goes “children respect your parents and be disciplined” or some shit lol

im very jokingly mean with my friends, all things they’re okay with. And as I’ve put it in the past is “I love being an actual asshole but reaping the benefits of being the nicest person you’ve ever met” which they agreed with lol

I'm super affectionate with my friends, and I’ll be physically affectionate often (only with the bros who are cool with it) I’m just generally very comforting, and naturally happy and just good to be around. I give good advice and emotional support, it comes pretty naturally to me, long story short I have ptsd and because there was a lot, I’m usually fairly equipped with good advice for the homies. Best part is, it’s not too draining for me, and it makes me so happy if I can help my friends. Genuinely; it’s always been a goal to be there and help when I can. Because I have many a’ times when I wished I had help but didn’t have someone I felt safe enough to go too. And the amount of times both good and bad people in my life have told me that I’ve helped them, I can’t even count how many times that’s happened, but I’m happy I’ve been able to help. And it feels good to give others what I didn’t have.

I’m a pretty damn good student. And that’s just cuz I’m a workaholic and most of my classes are some sort of social or media based, not to be confused with social media. I take a lot of language arts, rhetoric, I took formal logic and I wanna take it again tbh, took debate, and don’t really miss it. Taking sociology, museum studies, and a analysis and criticism film class. Plus I do a lot of reading about folklore and mythology, and occasionally psych but I’m more of a sociology person. Also some anthropology. I would like to do more research into political science and I’m already pretty familiar with gender studies, and I admit as I’m learning about queer history and science I do not know enough about queer science and history! But I’m having a great time!

but I am at an art school right now (graduating this year) and my same workaholic attitude for certain academic disciplines (excluding math and physical sciences) I’m also a huge workaholic regarding my own art, I do a lot of analysis, and researching on other artists and their techniques, im also a people watcher and I’ve committed a lot of physical features to memory. And if I fin an artist who’s doing something cool that I wanna understand better, I’ll usually just try to recreate it. Either on my own or after learning specifically from them how they did it. I’m always pushing myself to make bigger leaps in my art, I sadly can’t draw for hours and days at a time anymore due to my arm tendons (might be tendinitis?) so progress with less practice is a challenge but one I’m willing to do for the sake of my health. Hopefully one day I’ll become a valuable enough asset at Big Art Corporation™️ and I’ll make them pay to restring my arm so I can keep working for them /hj

so in recent years I’ve been learning about my own little spot on the autism spectrum, and I’ve learned about a really silly ability I’ve gained (talking about autistic traits like spell slots in D&D) I have the skill of telling myself to do something then doing it. Which I only now realize not everyone can just do! Now this is a thing of, you still need to get me to say I’ll do it. But like when I was depressed, I can tell myself my schedule for the day then I’ll do it. Or if I’ve come to the conclusion that someone is actively hurting me or fucking up my life I can tell myself to essentially stop liking them and cut them off entirely. Which scares the fuck out of some of my friends! LMAO, but like, keep in mind when it comes to cutting someone off, there’s a lot of thought that goes into it. I usually think about it thoroughly then just, well just fucking do it? And I stick to it because that’s what I said I’d do. This has come in pretty handy with the few breakups I’ve had, because I can usually just… get over it in like a day because there’s no point in feeling bad about it when I could literally be doing anything else. And as a kid I would tell myself to have crushes, then I would, then I would just drop them because I didn’t care to keep it up LMAO of course there’s situations where this doesn’t work… thing is it always works HFAHJG. It’s not that I didn’t care for any good memories I had with someone, I do, I just respect when something is over. I can still look back and enjoy good memories while not missing someone. <— regarding some of the worst people in my life. If something ends suddenly, if it’s appropriate I’ll try to mend it, because I believe in healing relationships, if it’s not working, I know when to let it die. I’m just gonna call this a weird form of emotional maturity, until years later I come to the conclusion that I’m actually just psychotic, or a sociopath /j (Which would be inaccurate because psychopathy is characterized by pretending to care, lack of empathy or sympathy. Shallow meaningless relationships. And sociopathy is characterized by impulsivity, anger and rage, lack of empathy and sympathy. Which. I am none of those, and in fact I’m too empathetic for my own good sometimes)

i just generally have a set of rules or I guess a moral code I follow, i dont gossip, I treat everyone with respect until they are deemed unworthy of it (by that I mean like polite respect, names pronouns will always be respected) I don’t lie to my friends, I don’t always tell people something but if they ask about it I will answer. If someone tells me something I assume it’s meant to stay between us and I will take it to my grave. I believe in second chances (for the most part) and I try to be as patient as I can, when it’s appropriate. I’m not petty, because it’s a waste of time. I don’t make promises because my word is enough. People are both good and bad and i try not to split people into one or the other, rather just try to accept the nuance that people have. I allow myself to feel bad about something, wallow in depression for a day because I know after I’m done feeling it I’ll feel better later. I Take care of the ones around me because I know what it’s like to not have needs met. I check in with people and make sure my feelings about them are completely transparent and they can say with certainty how I feel about them. And recently; no sympathy for cops, corporations, or the capitalist system /hj (<—reference to a thing that one friend will understand)

Now I’m very nice, I also have a pretty bad anxiety disorder that I’m being treated for, so talking and interacting with people is hard… except for when it’s a confrontation. So you know those people who are really nice and sweet but turn into a hellspawn when they get mad. Yeah that’s just me. If me or one of my friends is being disrespected, I have no issue confronting someone about it. I once, very nonchalantly told my transphobic manager (who I had been very nice/respectful towards till then) that if he doesn’t stop misgendering me. I can file a sex discrimination charge, and then started listing off all the reasons why I would win, he would loose his job, I would get a fuck ton of compensation money, and he would be royally fucked. He avoided me, or even mentioning me to my co-workers the rest of the time I worked there.

Also at my job, my other manager was terrified of me getting mad. Because of one time that I raised my voice at an asshole customer who started cussing me out. My friends at school. Have only seen me mad once. Which they did not like seeing. I have a pretty good handle on my anger of course. And I’m good about not snapping at people, and when it does happen and I snap at someone. I’m good at owning up to that, and apologizing.

I’m human and I fuck up, I am always subject to be in the wrong, and I can admit that. I also live by the philosophy that “you can never stop growing and learning” and I am a very self reflective person. I’m not perfect, but I’m pretty fuckin perfect and all my friends love me lol

more Importantly. I love myself. A lot. I genuinely do and it took a while to get to where I am. And I’m proud to be who I am, and I love who I am.

Description
I finished it! I just finished my finals for the semester. So this had to take a back seat to my homework

also in the “things I hate: WOMEN 🤬🖕” that is a joke! Inside joke with my friends that I’m a hardcore misogynist

Incase you have difficulty reading my hand writing, this is the typed version V

general stuff: Hi I’m fynn. He/him 5.6” 18 years. Infp/enfp Scorpio sun, Aries moon, Sagittarius rising. ♏️♈️♐️

flags: trans flag, gay men loving men flag. Aroscpectrum flag (or just arospec)

Music: tool. Nine inch nails (NIN). Bush. Korn. A perfect circle (APC). Depeche Mode. Glass animals. Poppy. The offspring. King Gizzard and the Lizard Wizard

things I hate: loud noises. Women >:[ 🖕 (/j). Bad ice (hockey things). heat. The term “boi”

things I like: hockey, history, baking, video games, energy drinks

starred items, facts about me: gay lil hockey boy. I’m fucking gay. I’m semi fluent in asl (5 years). The moon is a big rock and I like it. I flirt with the homies. I like writing letters to my friends. My favorite color is green. I’m a satanist (temple of satan). I have two cats. I’m a lil slimy. My smell gets stuck on my friends (they joke about it a lot). I play center and wing. I love skating. (This isn’t starred but it’s silly. I have two freckles that look like a vampire bite. And my friends joke about it)

Heart items (more things I like): Dracula. Clone wars. Arcane. Object shows. Adventure time. Figure drawing. Sculpting. Painting mini figs. Sally face. Minecraft. Cult of the lamb. Night in the woods.

Items with an arrow (physical features): I cut my own hair. 4 lobe piercings (two on each side) and snake bites. Hella freckles. Gay hands. FAT DICK. bracelets. Shoe size, 9.5-10.

Physical items: hockey stick. Trans tape + binders. Minecraft. Discord. Procreate. Monster energy drinks. Mushroom. Nail polish. My phone and tablet. Blahaj. And my skincare, shampoo n’sfuff (added those because of a joke i and with my friend. You know who you are whore) and my meds. Because medication should be de-stigmatized. And should be recognized as a normal thing

Might just use this as a place to talk more about myself since this has been such a lovely act of self indulgence. (Also as a way to kinda snapshot who I am right now so I can look back on it)

I'm gonna speak with a mixture of how I perceive myself. And how my friends perceive me.
I LOOK MEAN. LIKE ALL THE TIME LMAO. Most if not ALL of my friends thought I hated them at first (I’m sorry I just look like that!) and I only hated one of them! Love you Arch<3

I’m pretty quiet in social situations, but once they get me talking I’m a delight (or a “ray of mother fucking sunshine”) I get along with basically anyone, I’m very easy to talk too, I’m a good listener, and when I get talking I can also carry a conversation.

I get along with adults really well, I was homeschooled my whole life except for junior and senior year, thats when I moved to a boarding school. But I was around a lot of adults, and just generally matured fast. Doesnt stop me from being fuckin stupid sometimes but it’s funny!

Parents have consistently loved me, and ask me to “rub off on their kids” which. I will not do it on purpose! The Only adults who have famously disliked me, are the ones who were disrespectful to me because of my age, gender or sexuality. Or they didn’t like my attitude? But the thing is because I was raised and treated like an adult. When actual adults treated me like a child, I would do the same, or actively ignore them when they just assumed that I would do as they say. I grew up with the moral of “give everyone respect until they are deemed unworthy of it” and I follow that strictly. If someone disrespects me or places themself in a position of power over me without any actual backing other than “I’m older than you and you have to respect the adults in your life” or any other dumb fuck reason. I will be an actual dick to them. I will not listen. I will prove them wrong. My uncles and aunts fucking hate me for it! They’re all Christian and just assumed that I would respect them because of the verse that goes “children respect your parents and be disciplined” or some shit lol

im very jokingly mean with my friends, all things they’re okay with. And as I’ve put it in the past is “I love being an actual asshole but reaping the benefits of being the nicest person you’ve ever met” which they agreed with lol

I'm super affectionate with my friends, and I’ll be physically affectionate often (only with the bros who are cool with it) I’m just generally very comforting, and naturally happy and just good to be around. I give good advice and emotional support, it comes pretty naturally to me, long story short I have ptsd and because there was a lot, I’m usually fairly equipped with good advice for the homies. Best part is, it’s not too draining for me, and it makes me so happy if I can help my friends. Genuinely; it’s always been a goal to be there and help when I can. Because I have many a’ times when I wished I had help but didn’t have someone I felt safe enough to go too. And the amount of times both good and bad people in my life have told me that I’ve helped them, I can’t even count how many times that’s happened, but I’m happy I’ve been able to help. And it feels good to give others what I didn’t have.

I’m a pretty damn good student. And that’s just cuz I’m a workaholic and most of my classes are some sort of social or media based, not to be confused with social media. I take a lot of language arts, rhetoric, I took formal logic and I wanna take it again tbh, took debate, and don’t really miss it. Taking sociology, museum studies, and a analysis and criticism film class. Plus I do a lot of reading about folklore and mythology, and occasionally psych but I’m more of a sociology person. Also some anthropology. I would like to do more research into political science and I’m already pretty familiar with gender studies, and I admit as I’m learning about queer history and science I do not know enough about queer science and history! But I’m having a great time!

but I am at an art school right now (graduating this year) and my same workaholic attitude for certain academic disciplines (excluding math and physical sciences) I’m also a huge workaholic regarding my own art, I do a lot of analysis, and researching on other artists and their techniques, im also a people watcher and I’ve committed a lot of physical features to memory. And if I fin an artist who’s doing something cool that I wanna understand better, I’ll usually just try to recreate it. Either on my own or after learning specifically from them how they did it. I’m always pushing myself to make bigger leaps in my art, I sadly can’t draw for hours and days at a time anymore due to my arm tendons (might be tendinitis?) so progress with less practice is a challenge but one I’m willing to do for the sake of my health. Hopefully one day I’ll become a valuable enough asset at Big Art Corporation™️ and I’ll make them pay to restring my arm so I can keep working for them /hj

so in recent years I’ve been learning about my own little spot on the autism spectrum, and I’ve learned about a really silly ability I’ve gained (talking about autistic traits like spell slots in D&D) I have the skill of telling myself to do something then doing it. Which I only now realize not everyone can just do! Now this is a thing of, you still need to get me to say I’ll do it. But like when I was depressed, I can tell myself my schedule for the day then I’ll do it. Or if I’ve come to the conclusion that someone is actively hurting me or fucking up my life I can tell myself to essentially stop liking them and cut them off entirely. Which scares the fuck out of some of my friends! LMAO, but like, keep in mind when it comes to cutting someone off, there’s a lot of thought that goes into it. I usually think about it thoroughly then just, well just fucking do it? And I stick to it because that’s what I said I’d do. This has come in pretty handy with the few breakups I’ve had, because I can usually just… get over it in like a day because there’s no point in feeling bad about it when I could literally be doing anything else. And as a kid I would tell myself to have crushes, then I would, then I would just drop them because I didn’t care to keep it up LMAO of course there’s situations where this doesn’t work… thing is it always works HFAHJG. It’s not that I didn’t care for any good memories I had with someone, I do, I just respect when something is over. I can still look back and enjoy good memories while not missing someone. <— regarding some of the worst people in my life. If something ends suddenly, if it’s appropriate I’ll try to mend it, because I believe in healing relationships, if it’s not working, I know when to let it die. I’m just gonna call this a weird form of emotional maturity, until years later I come to the conclusion that I’m actually just psychotic, or a sociopath /j (Which would be inaccurate because psychopathy is characterized by pretending to care, lack of empathy or sympathy. Shallow meaningless relationships. And sociopathy is characterized by impulsivity, anger and rage, lack of empathy and sympathy. Which. I am none of those, and in fact I’m too empathetic for my own good sometimes)

i just generally have a set of rules or I guess a moral code I follow, i dont gossip, I treat everyone with respect until they are deemed unworthy of it (by that I mean like polite respect, names pronouns will always be respected) I don’t lie to my friends, I don’t always tell people something but if they ask about it I will answer. If someone tells me something I assume it’s meant to stay between us and I will take it to my grave. I believe in second chances (for the most part) and I try to be as patient as I can, when it’s appropriate. I’m not petty, because it’s a waste of time. I don’t make promises because my word is enough. People are both good and bad and i try not to split people into one or the other, rather just try to accept the nuance that people have. I allow myself to feel bad about something, wallow in depression for a day because I know after I’m done feeling it I’ll feel better later. I Take care of the ones around me because I know what it’s like to not have needs met. I check in with people and make sure my feelings about them are completely transparent and they can say with certainty how I feel about them. And recently; no sympathy for cops, corporations, or the capitalist system /hj (<—reference to a thing that one friend will understand)

Now I’m very nice, I also have a pretty bad anxiety disorder that I’m being treated for, so talking and interacting with people is hard… except for when it’s a confrontation. So you know those people who are really nice and sweet but turn into a hellspawn when they get mad. Yeah that’s just me. If me or one of my friends is being disrespected, I have no issue confronting someone about it. I once, very nonchalantly told my transphobic manager (who I had been very nice/respectful towards till then) that if he doesn’t stop misgendering me. I can file a sex discrimination charge, and then started listing off all the reasons why I would win, he would loose his job, I would get a fuck ton of compensation money, and he would be royally fucked. He avoided me, or even mentioning me to my co-workers the rest of the time I worked there.

Also at my job, my other manager was terrified of me getting mad. Because of one time that I raised my voice at an asshole customer who started cussing me out. My friends at school. Have only seen me mad once. Which they did not like seeing. I have a pretty good handle on my anger of course. And I’m good about not snapping at people, and when it does happen and I snap at someone. I’m good at owning up to that, and apologizing.

I’m human and I fuck up, I am always subject to be in the wrong, and I can admit that. I also live by the philosophy that “you can never stop growing and learning” and I am a very self reflective person. I’m not perfect, but I’m pretty fuckin perfect and all my friends love me lol

more Importantly. I love myself. A lot. I genuinely do and it took a while to get to where I am. And I’m proud to be who I am, and I love who I am.