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IrritusLamia — Feminine Beauty

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Description Sakuracon 2012 - Thursday (and Monday)

Photographer -

Bou, formerly of An Cafe


I chose to do the dress in the magazine (although, in pink). I really want to do his pink kimino, but it's hard finding fabric like it.


Bou-chan... the only trap that I actually fell hard. He's one of the big reasons why I am so comfortable with crossdressing. I used to believe that people despised men that are overly feminine (well, in most countries, they still do), but Bou gave me the impression that he was so comfortable with what he does. So, I started doing it and I felt much more comfortable than how I've always been.

I have always lived according to who I am as a person, and not according to everyone's expectations. There will always be someone, somewhere that hates you just because you exist. So, do what you want (Neku influence) and live according to who you are. Everyone has their own definition of beauty, so it's up to you to decide whether you match it yourself. Outer beauty is perfectly fine, but it's your inner beauty that helps you shine as a person.

The dress is made from a white polka dot fabric and then dyed pink. I could not for the life of me find pink and polka dot fabric, so I had no choice but to dye it. The arm warmers are made from a black floral pattern and finished with lace. The overcoat is made from leftover black sew knit. The petticoat that you cannot see is made of various black tulle and more leftover fabric.

(I wish I had pink eyeshadow)
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Comments: 50

Edward-JamesKenway [2013-06-25 20:26:06 +0000 UTC]

that is really pretty! love it!

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IrritusLamia In reply to Edward-JamesKenway [2013-06-26 02:21:19 +0000 UTC]

Hehe~ Thank you!

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Edward-JamesKenway In reply to IrritusLamia [2013-06-27 12:55:57 +0000 UTC]

lattime amico

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The-Directors-Cut [2013-06-07 08:32:17 +0000 UTC]

nicely done

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IrritusLamia In reply to The-Directors-Cut [2013-06-09 06:53:30 +0000 UTC]

Thank you ^_^

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An-Sho-Vy [2012-06-13 00:32:38 +0000 UTC]

Oh my god, I love Bou-chan! And you look so much like him, and very pretty too! ^___^

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IrritusLamia In reply to An-Sho-Vy [2012-06-13 07:04:13 +0000 UTC]

Ya! It's still sad that he left all those years ago, but he was so inspiring.

Thank you, but he's much prettier than I.

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Gazelover [2012-06-07 18:31:39 +0000 UTC]

You are just sooo cute!! Very well done I feel like hugging you !

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IrritusLamia In reply to Gazelover [2012-06-08 02:17:17 +0000 UTC]



Umm.. please be gentle...

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cdliz [2012-05-31 02:50:56 +0000 UTC]

I love your hair.

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IrritusLamia In reply to cdliz [2012-05-31 20:18:13 +0000 UTC]

Thanks, but it's a wig

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cdliz In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-06-01 03:31:29 +0000 UTC]

I know, but it still looks nice.

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DreamsComeTroo [2012-05-14 01:42:20 +0000 UTC]

..............hehehehehehehehehehe traaaap4uuuuu

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IrritusLamia In reply to DreamsComeTroo [2012-05-14 02:24:42 +0000 UTC]

Oh you~, I wish you'd have been more subtle.

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DreamsComeTroo In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-05-14 09:39:23 +0000 UTC]

...Yes that would spice up life- being incredibly subtle.

... You know me ever so well <3

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Cosmic-Empress [2012-04-24 23:04:46 +0000 UTC]

Your make up is better than mine. o.O

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IrritusLamia In reply to Cosmic-Empress [2012-04-25 01:52:50 +0000 UTC]

Nu-uh, yours is MUCH better than mine. I cheat with my eyes because I have Asian eye lines. I barely even know how to put on lashes >_>

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suishyou [2012-04-24 20:42:47 +0000 UTC]

Hurrhurr~ Cutie. c: You fit him so well!
I really like this choice of posture, makes
me melt into a puddle of goo. <3

well,itdoesn'thelpIlikefeminineboyssoooo. <3

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IrritusLamia In reply to suishyou [2012-04-25 02:15:13 +0000 UTC]

Oh you... you make me smile with your comments.

it'sokay!He'soneoftheveryveryveryfewboysIwouldgogayfor.ButalasIlovegirlsmuchmore

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soul02 [2012-04-24 19:56:42 +0000 UTC]

"live the life you want to live not because other people tell you its right but because you believe it to be so." just like my quote

Yea I think that in life, you should do what you want to do because people's expectations are so different. The only way to live a happy life, is living it the way you feel is right. That way you live life with no regrets.

I really love you in blond. I dont know what it is, but you look really good as a blond The craftsmanship on what you can see is flawless. I want to see the petticoat! More pictures please lol
BTW if you dont have pink eyeshadow, but do have pink lipstick, wouldnt smudging it on your eye work as well?

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IrritusLamia In reply to soul02 [2012-04-25 01:58:22 +0000 UTC]

You are wise.

Ha, thanks. My real hair is actually blond (well, very pale blond/white). There are more pictures to come!

The only thing I don't like about the lipstick is that smudging it makes my eyes much to sticky and glossy. Lip liner doesn't show up as well either. Eh, I guess I'll just always bring my eyeshadow kit XD.

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soul02 In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 06:06:47 +0000 UTC]

good deal

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EclecticManiac [2012-04-24 19:16:03 +0000 UTC]

I love your message and totally agree <333 I think you are beautiful inside and out BILLAY! This is so perfect too. An Cafe has always been one of my fave bands and you totally do Bou justice!

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IrritusLamia In reply to EclecticManiac [2012-04-25 02:05:41 +0000 UTC]

Oh Kelly. You're the one that I connect to the most, so I'm glad someone with a beautiful heart like you approves.

<3s FOREVER LOVE + hearts.

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EclecticManiac In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 02:09:50 +0000 UTC]

Of course I approve twin! <33333

I miss you T_T I can't wait for you to be my sister at fanime T_T

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immortal-night [2012-04-24 16:02:13 +0000 UTC]

cute!!!

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IrritusLamia In reply to immortal-night [2012-04-25 02:02:34 +0000 UTC]

/huggle

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NanaInTheClouds [2012-04-24 08:32:17 +0000 UTC]

Oh my goodness you pull him off perfectly! ;w;

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IrritusLamia In reply to NanaInTheClouds [2012-04-25 02:25:54 +0000 UTC]

Thank you for the kind words! This has been one of the cosplays that I have wanted to do for a VERY long time.

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JAVA-MOCHA [2012-04-24 07:37:56 +0000 UTC]

All kinds of Awesome ^3^

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IrritusLamia In reply to JAVA-MOCHA [2012-04-25 02:12:40 +0000 UTC]

Thank you! <(o'A'o);

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JAVA-MOCHA In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 05:45:25 +0000 UTC]

Welcomes

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GirlySavannah [2012-04-24 04:49:48 +0000 UTC]

He makes me want to wear girl clothes even more

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IrritusLamia In reply to GirlySavannah [2012-04-25 02:10:23 +0000 UTC]

IKNOWRIGHT!? He's such an lovely inspiration.

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GirlySavannah In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 13:51:51 +0000 UTC]

Yes. Where did you find this picture?

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IrritusLamia In reply to GirlySavannah [2012-04-25 21:32:27 +0000 UTC]

Ohoho, I must've replied wrong.

The person I'm cosplaying is called Bou.

The person in the picture is me.

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GirlySavannah In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 23:37:22 +0000 UTC]

Awww. You must teach me your way crossdressing elder!

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IrritusLamia In reply to GirlySavannah [2012-04-27 01:41:16 +0000 UTC]

Ha, I don't have anything to teach really... Just be clean shaven, and smile your heart out. And make-up helps, I suppose.

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GirlySavannah In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-27 05:41:17 +0000 UTC]

How do you do your makeup? and are you wearing a wig?

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IrritusLamia In reply to GirlySavannah [2012-04-28 01:28:36 +0000 UTC]

How do I wear my make-up? Hmm... just normally I suppose. Moisturizer, primer, foundation, powder, finish. Then white/black eyeliner and lip gloss. Pretty much normal.

Yea. I'd use my hair, but it's MUCH MUCH longer than the character I'm portraying.

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GirlySavannah In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-28 03:22:42 +0000 UTC]

Oh, my hair is extremely short. My parents would never let me be girly, so I really have to keep this side of me a secret. I would like to be more girly though

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mickiidino [2012-04-24 04:13:02 +0000 UTC]

HOMG SO FREAKN CUTE~!!!! <333 I have pink eyeshadow

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IrritusLamia In reply to mickiidino [2012-04-24 04:24:48 +0000 UTC]

;3 I TRY TO BE FOR THE LOVE OF BOU-CHAN!

I have some time... now. But I wish I had some at the time of this shoot.

<3.

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mickiidino In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-24 04:42:44 +0000 UTC]

Bou~!!!!! <333333

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IrritusLamia In reply to mickiidino [2012-04-25 01:54:26 +0000 UTC]

<3<3 and less than 3.

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mickiidino In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 01:56:28 +0000 UTC]

:3 haha

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IrritusLamia In reply to mickiidino [2012-04-25 02:06:33 +0000 UTC]

I still have a raunchy picture, just for you... but... it's a little...

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mickiidino In reply to IrritusLamia [2012-04-25 05:23:30 +0000 UTC]

bring it on >:3 challenge accepted xD

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Dye-Another-Day [2012-04-24 04:08:41 +0000 UTC]

You are a fantastic Bou! Very good.

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IrritusLamia In reply to Dye-Another-Day [2012-04-24 04:25:26 +0000 UTC]

;_; Thank you very much! I wanted to portray him as best as I could.

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