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Published: 2011-11-07 21:04:55 +0000 UTC; Views: 767; Favourites: 30; Downloads: 19
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Day One of The Seven Deadly Sins: 7 November 2011; I Am Bisexual.Today is the first day I begin my seven deadly sins challenge, which reveals one secret a day about me. Not all of them will indeed be secrets, but some will just be 'frowned' upon.
Its not wrong to be bisexual. I'm very open about it, and I am no where ashamed of it. I'm sure a lot of people know I am--hell it is right on my dA page in the 'About Me'. I do not hide that I am bisexual, therefore it is not a secret. But--I have lost friends when I came out. Which is why I believe this should be in the category for the seven deadly sins challenge.
If you are afraid to come out, but you wish to tell someone--talk to me. I'm always here to help. I can listen, give advice, and be support that you need.
I'm sorry for the quality of this picture. I did have little time to take it--but I am keeping my promise of uploading one photo each day for the seven deadly sins challenge. I put duct tape over my mouth to symbolize those who are in hiding about their true sexuality, and for those who will not speak up. I came out last year, 2010. And I am glad that I did.
I wrote 'I'm Bisexual' on the tape, but you cant see it. So I edited writing onto the picture. Sorry for that.):
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I understood what you said, and it makes perfect sense.(: I get how you feel completely. Unlike yours, my friends who left didn't come back. They still hate the fact I'm bisexual, and won't even talk to me. I gave up trying to be friends with them long ago--and I don't regret ever coming out to them. If they do not accept me for who I am, then they weren't true friends at all. Coming out does feel thousands of times better, because its who you really are. People say you should yourself to the world and be who your truly are, so when we have to keep such an important fact about ourselves, it makes us feel guilty--that were lying.
Its like stealing a cookie from the cookie jar when your parents told you not too. You have all that regret and guilt held up inside you, that once you tell them it was you who stole the cookie; an explosion of relief comes out of your chest. They'll be mad at first, just like people will be uneasy at first, but soon everything will be okay and get back to normal--as if it always was there.
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Exactly(: and I'm glad that it made sense(: And by people who come out or came out like us, we learn who are real friends are, and who never were really good friends... So in a way by coming out there are some ups, and there are some downs..
Like some ups would be, people know, you found out who your real friends are, your guilt free because your not lying to anyone about who you really are. But then the downs would be, people judge you, make up stupid rumors, they pull pranks, and they never let you hear the end of it..
Anyways, especially at my school... To be "cool" you have to be like perfect, and like the popular kids.. (Which i think this is a bunch of bullshit.) So I was always different then everyone, I guess you can say I'm "emo" I used to cut, and I guess you can say in a way I'm "scene". But honestly I don't like going by labels, if I have to go by a label it would be "scene". So my point is by telling you that, is that having everyone know that about me, and then finding out I'm bi made it easier to "make fun" of me.
(kids at my school are complete jackasses to people who are different)
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I know what you mean. In my school it was the same way for the longest of time, but now that were all in high school everyone i guess grew up. Most kids accept everyone for who they re, so I'm not bullied as bad as I used to be. And I was called the emo kid plenty of times, I just grew used to it. So if someone calls me emo, it doesn't bother me. I don't live to please them, so I don't need to listen to them.
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I ignore them to or well i mostly try to anyways :/ I wish the people in my school would grow up, but they won't. And I totally agree with you when you say you don't live to please them(: My school is just one of those new schools, so everyone acts all bitchy and like they are all that.. if you know what i mean.. :/
I used to get bullied a lot too, but now I finally stick up for who I am, and what I believe in... I let to many people bring down myself esteem.. and it took me forever to get it back up... Because I used to believe that if no one talked to me, it's because they hated me.. So i used to be really quiet and shy.. Because of people making fun of me.. But now that all changed because i finally stopped letting people treat me like a doormat..
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I was the exact same as you. I was the quiet and shy kid who nobody talked too, and i always though people were talking about me. I was extremely paranoid, so i never spoke. Not until about last year did i break out of my shell and begin to show who i really am. Now people just accept me. They dont care for me or hate me,. just just acknowledged my existence. And i'm perfectly fine with that.
Dont let anyone being you down, your beautiful inside and out, and an amazingly sweet person. Always remember that.
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Thanks(: and right ? Well ever since I broke my little shy bubble, my life has been more fun, outgoing, and drama :/ Lolz The drama because I guess ever since I was bullied, and now when I see people get bullied I stick up for them, and the kids who are the ones doing the bullying don't like that. (And the ones who are doing all of the bullying are the "popular" kids)So what all of my friends tell me is that I'm taking on all the "popular" kids without even realizing it... :/ (of coarse I am really sensitive so I was all like I can't do that, I don't want to be the center of attention.) So I guess the popular kids hate me more than they do all of the other kids at my school.. Which is fine by me, because like we both said we aren't put on the earth to please every body.
And hey the same with you, don't you let anyone bring you down either(:
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Thats true. The 'popular' kids talk shit on me all the time, but I really just don't give a fuck. I don't talk about them, so i don't start anything. keep the peace you know?
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Right, I try to keep the peace but you know sometimes its hard.. Lmfao xD And I don't give a fuck either, its just sometimes they get really annoying.. But I just ignore them.. Most of the time(:
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Thats good.xD sometimes you just gotta lash out on someone when they go to far. But other than that, whats the point? They want the fire, so give them water.
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Exactly xD It's also more satisfying when you just ignore them, and you see the look on their face.. 
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Exactly.xD I enjoy it.:3
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Ahaha right? :3 It makes my day xD lmfao
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xD So whats up ?
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Nuffin much, just on dA eating a walrus poptart.xDD In a few I'm leaving to go the-day-after-black-friday shopping.xDD
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Awesome... xD
O_O whhuuts a walrus poptart? Is it shaped like a walrus or something ? 
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It just had a walrus on it.xD
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Ohhh xD sounds awesome(: Lolz n_n
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So how have you been?
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Okay, could be better, but other than that good(:
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Well thats good.
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In a fight with my bestfriend... Or well ex bestfriend.. :/
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Awweh.): I'm sorry. fights suck.. My best friend..or i dont even know if id still call her my best friend; is too occupied with sex and meth to even talk to me./: I havent spoken to her in months../: She goes to a different school than i do, so i never get to see her. but i hope everything works out for the better. if it doesnt, then she wasnt really your best friend in the first place.
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My ex bestfriend goes to a different school too, and the reason we are fighting is because she choose her boyfriend over her friends.. :/ and i am sorry to hear about you and your bestfriend.. and i hope you guys are still bestfriends. :/
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I'm sorry to hear about yours too./: Suprisingly, my friend contacted me like two days ago. I was shocked--but she stopped talking to me. again. -.-
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It's fine, me and her are on talking terms now, which is good.. And she is moving back to my school in January. And I'm sorry she's not talking to you... Did you try talking/contacting her and see what's up with her not talking with you?
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I hope everything gets better between yew too.
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I do to(: And thanks.
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I know what your saying; its common sense. But me--I have no friends. Her, my boyfriend, and two other people is all I have. So if there is any chance to get my best friend back, I'll take it. I know deep down she still is my bestfriend, like who she was--rather than this new person I barely recognize.
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Aww I'm sorry to hear that 
Thats how it is with me and Katie(my bestfriend) She liked changed once she started dating her boyfriend, and pushing her friends away, and I was trying everything to get her back, and it finally worked. So don't give up, you'll get through to her, and reach the old her, the person who is your bestfriend..
(I did not mean for that to sound all judge-mental or like I'm miss know it all.. I'm just trying to help)
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I know what you mean.(: Thanks for the inspiration.
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Your welcome(: And well I'm glad that you won't take it the wrong way, some people do and that's why i kinda worry if I'm saying the wrong, or right thing
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Haha, I know how you feel. People take what I say wrong all teh time.
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Right? It's so annoying.. Especially when they get mad at you for saying something.. .It's like really? Wow. >.<
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I know.): But what can yew do, right? As long as it doesn't affect you in a horrible wya, then forget about it. Life is too short to lilve with remorse.
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Right? I so agree with you
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Yeah.
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I have been great(: Me and Katie are talking, and are like friends again.
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Thats Good.
I've been sick recently.): But I'm still busy with crew, but that ends on thursday and wont start up again until the 11 of January. I'm extremely excited becasue my best friend since 1st grade who moved to florida two years ago and I haven't seen in a year and a half is coming up to see me on Friday. Shes going to be staying for two nights and three days. I'm siked becasue I haven't seen her in forever.
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Awesome, I would be super excited too, I mean I would be jumping off the wall with excitement. 
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I am.(: and thanks!
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That's great to know(: And you are very much welcomed !
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Woop!
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That's great to hear(: And same with me
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Haha nice.
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Right? xDD... Oh I got myself a slight cold too.. and it sucks ! Lmfao
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