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Disclaimer: This guide is for adults only and discusses the usage of spanking when it comes to adults.

PUNISHMENT "AND" PLEASURE

Spanking can cover a wide array of emotions that differ from person to person, as well as the reason for the spanking. Some people hate spankings, others love them, and this along with many other factors determine reason and outcome for spanking. There's more to spanking than most people know, and those who enjoy it have invented a variety of methods to torture the bad, and please the good, not to mention terminology for it all.

REASON TO SPANK

There are many reasons to spank another, but some have particular interests, or morals that come into play when spanking others. Spanking isn't for everyone though, and while spanking another without warning may yield surprising results, it can also end relationships, so proceed with caution. The best route is to discuss it with significant others, or even friends if close enough.

~To Punish~
If someone doesn't like spanking, that can make it an excellent method of punishing them. Spanking isn't for everyone though as I said, and may have a negative effect rather than a positive. For those it will work with though, they will learn from whatever mistake they've been punished for.

If a spanking is for punishment reasons, it can even have a proper effect on those that like spanking. Many enjoy spanking for fun, but when it comes to a punishment they may not be able to enjoy it because of the fact that it's for doing something bad.

~To Please~
Most find spanking a fetish, and a kinky way to enjoy themselves in the bedroom. They get a sexual thrill of of it, much like S&M in general. Some even use it as a precurser to sex, as a means to set the mood.

~To Relieve~
For some, spanking is just a form of stress relief. A bad day and a mountain of tension are relieved with a good bottom whacking, much like a massage but with more sting to it.

~To Laugh~
While spanking has a sexual purpose for most, it can also be a means to just have fun. Some people look at spankings with a sense of humor and enjoy a good laugh over them. It could be between friends just being silly with each other.

STRENGTH AND SPEED

How hard you spank determines the line between punishment and pleasure for every situation. There are different levels of strength when it comes to spankings based on how hard you smack.

-Pat: A pat to the bottom is so gently you barely even notice it. It may get a plump rear bouncing, or just be a playful gesture.
-Soft: Some people have a low pain tolerance, and as such a spanking can't be as hard for them, whether they enjoy it or not. A soft spanking will leave a light sting, but it takes much longer to do anything significant to the bottom, and who knows you may want the spanking to last a while.
-Medium: The average level of strength, based on how much strength you'd put into anything you'd normally do, unlike soft which requires you to be gentle.
-Hard: This requires you to put some effort into your smacks, and can easily be described as "giving everything you've got" and spanking with your maximum level of strength.

How fast you spank can be just as important as how hard you spank. The speed can be a fast paced merciless barrage, or a slow and steady dragged out session.

-Slow: Can differ when used with soft or hard spankings. When soft, a slow spanking can be a sensual and relaxing experience. When hard, it can give the bottom time to stop bouncing and reach a height of sting right before smacking again, which is a very effective form of spanking.
-Medium: Like strength, this is just an average level of speed without putting any real effort into going faster or slower.
-Fast: Like slow, this can differ in effect based on how hard you spank. If soft, while not painful, it can make the bottom sting and remain at a constant rate of sting as you pepper the bottom with blows. If your going to try spanking fast while spanking hard though, you'll need a lot of physical endurance, because as fast as you can reduce the spankee to a sniveling mass, you can also have a negative effect on yourself.

Spanking with your hand can leave as much sting in your palm as in the spankee's bottom. Any amount of spanking can be a real work out for your arm, but to reduce the sting to your own hand from flesh on flesh contact, there are also a variety of tools you can use to spank someone with.

IMPLEMENTS (SPANKING TOOLS)

From common household items to tools of the trade, implements are a very important aspect of spanking. While some think a hand is enough and anything else would be overboard, or just a much more sensual means to enjoy the experience, implements are used just as well for the same reasons, and allow you to spank much harder with less physical effort.

Some examples of common implements used include:
-Hairbrushes: Plastic or wooden, if it has a flat back, then a brush can basically be used like a miniature paddle. A fan favorite, due to it not being too big and painful, while still getting a stronger point across than a bare hand. A slight upgrade from the hairbrush would be a bathbrush, which is not only larger and stronger, it has a longer handle which some might find more convenient.

-Paddles: The most common and well known implement when it comes to a spanking, paddles actually come in a variety of forms to themselves. How thick a paddle is can determine it's strength when making impact with a bottom, and if it has holes that allows it to move faster as air flows right through it, allowing a swifter harder smack. Some sadistic folk enjoy paddles with studs, which while they do make the spanking harder they may cause bruising to the butt in question.

-Leather Belts and Straps: These have a very unique form of spanking for those on the recieving end. The leather can shape to the spankee's bottom upon impact, creating a massive amount of sting. Be careful though, because due to the welts that form when spanking with a belt, it can cause bruising faster than expected. Straps cover a large surface area, and due to not being as narrow as belts, will cause more sting over more area without as much bruising.

-Switches and Canes: The most sadistic implements known to spankees, these implements can actually be very dangerous if not used carefully. While many people enjoy the "stripes" across the spankees bottom these form, the welts from this form of spanking are actually worse than those from a belt. Rather than cause bruising, the incredibly thin switch or the incredibly thick cane can actually break the skin and cause bleeding. This may be fun for some, but if you don't want permanent damage to your bottom or to wear bandaids on your butt, I reccomend caution with these implements if not avoiding them completely.

-Wooden Spoons: A handy cooking utensil, for food, and bottoms. A popular implement among grandmothers, this implement can be used swiftly to cause a decent amount of sting. Even moreso if used after pulling it from a steaming pot of water. A smack from this may not be as hard as a brush, but it can be swung faster and more frequently.

-Carpet Beaters: A semi-popular implement at this point, carpet beaters are usually used for smacking carpets to relieve them of dirt. Someone got the bright idea to do the same thing to people's rears, and it has been a popular implement since.

There are practically hundreds of objects that can be used to spank someone with, including but not limited to: spatulas, flyswatters, tv remotes, dog leashes, newspapers, ping pong paddles, planks of wood, slippers, tennis rackets, towels, and rulers. Sometimes, though, just because you can spank someone with it doesn't mean it's a good idea. A perfect example of this is a boat oar, because more than one smack from this can cause more permanent damage than a cane. (If you would like a more detailed description on any of these implements mentioned in this paragraph, let me know and I will update the guide.)

POSITIONS

The position you spank someone in is crucial and important. There are actually a huge variety of positions you can spank and be spanked in, determined not just by the way your body can bend, but on the objects around you as well.

Here are some example of more commonly known spanking positions:
-OTK: By far the most common and used position in all of spanking, OTK stands for "Over The Knee". Simply bend someone over you knee and pin them there with your freehand, while spanking them with your other. Most prefer this from over the lap, due to it having the negative effect of a male's excitement poking into the spankee's stomach. Over the knee is an easy position to get someone into and hold them in. Not only that, but it's just basic knowledge, making it a go to favorite for most.

-Bent over object: Wether is be the edge of a bed, table, counter, a chair, or even the back of the couch, this position puts the spankee in a proper bent over position with their bottom presented, while also allowing the spanker to remain mobile. Because of this, this position is a go to second to OTK.

-Under Arm/ Over Shoulder: Either of these positions are commonly used to carry a resistent individual to a desired location. When spanking is added to the mix, it allows for discipline on the go, or just a means to humiliate and/ or mess with the one being carried.

-Standing: If it's posible to be spanked while laying over a lap, it's completely possible to be spanked standing up. A deciding factor on this one is hand placement. The one being spanked's hands will be out of the way, but they can be on their head, against a wall, or down to their toes, thereby altering the position slightly for one's desire.

-Legs Up: Also less popularly known as the "diaper position", this position require the one being spanked to first be laying on their back. Their legs will be lifted straight upward, putting their body at a ninety degree angle. To keep their legs here, the spanker may use his free hand to simply push the legs up, or grab their ankles. This position can be very exposion and humiliating.

-Bongo: Also known to some as the "wheelbarrow position", this is the only position more exposing and humiliating than legs up. To achieve this position, the spanker must first be sitting up. The spankee will have their back to the spanker, and their hands and face near/ on the floor. The spankee's legs will be on either side of the spanker's waist, presenting their bottom to their punisher like a pair of bongos, hence the name. This also forces their legs to be spread, having an exposing effect in the area between their legs .

There are a variety of positions to spank someone in. You can either look some up like some sort of spanking kamasutra, or just get creative with it. Light or heavy bondage can also be used to create a variet of positions, such as hanging from the ceiling, or having ones limbs tied to all four corners of a bed. The choice is yours, depending on your convenience and desire, or even how much you want to humiliate the one being spanked.

You don't have to resort to bondage to restrain the one being spanked though. For example, when the spankee is in the OTK position, if they try to cover their butt with their hands, you can grab their wrists and pin them to the small of their back. If they kick too much, you can also pin down their legs with one of your own. Just hope your stronger than the spankee, because if they resist, they can get very strong and violent.

HUMILIATION AND OTHER FORMS OF PUNISHMENT

This is where things get interesting. Many things can be mixed in with spanking, or used to make it a more humiliating experience for the spankee, whether they like it or not.

~Exposure~
The amount of clothing you leave on teh one being spanked is an important factor. Clothes can reduce the pain from a spanking. A lack of clothes deprives the spankee of not only protection, but modesty. Lowering or removing pants is most common, exposing the subjects undergarments. Lowering or removing underpants can leave a lot more on display, which can make a spanking more of a humiliating punishment, or a pleasurable experience.

If one wants to expose more butt without taking away the subjects modesty completely, they can simply give them a wedgie. With their underwear up between their cheeks, it leaves their full bottom on display, and nothing else unmentionable. At the same time, this can create an uncomfortable situation for the one being spanked, dur to the tension of their underwear between their legs.

Some ont he other hand simply go all the way and strip the one being spanked completely naked. Like anything else when it comes to spanking, this can be simply to punish and humiliate the one being spanked, or create a more erotic and sexual situation between lovers.

~Corner Time~
Also known as a time out, this is disliked by many due to the idea behind it. Being put in a corner like a small child and being told to stand there and think about what they did, perhaps with the addition of not being able to rub their sore bottom or incur more punishment, it can be a very humiliating experience.

~Soap~
Usually used on one who has spoken profannity, sticking soap in the one being punished's mouth, before or after a spanking, can be a disgusting experience for them. To increase it's effectiveness, one can rinse and lather the soap, causing it to give off suds.

~Public~
When you have an audience for you spanking, wether it be a small group of friends, or a food court full of civilians, getting a spanking in public can be both extremely humiliating for the spankee, or a massive thrill ride.

~Wet~
A wet spanking is most common when it comes to swimming, but can also be created through pouring water on the spankee's rear. Moisture actually makes the spanking louder, and sting more. So if you want to make sure that it doesn't sting as much spanking someone fresh out of the pool or ocean, use a towel or something to dry off their bottom before hand.

~Lotion and Icepacks~
While ice packs are sometimes used to cool spanked bottoms and reduce the swelling from all the smacks, the most effective thing you can use to soothe a spanked bottom is lotion. Lotion is a cold cream that will reduce heat and sting, not to mention it's good for making skin healthy and smooth anyways. On the other hand, a small handful of people use lotion "before" a spanking, not just to get it smooth and shiny, but to simulate the effect of water and make the spanking sting more.

This will be updated regularly with more information on spanking as I have time to write it or more information comes to light. Expect regular updates in the future.

Description
Disclaimer: This guide is for adults only and discusses the usage of spanking when it comes to adults.

PUNISHMENT "AND" PLEASURE

Spanking can cover a wide array of emotions that differ from person to person, as well as the reason for the spanking. Some people hate spankings, others love them, and this along with many other factors determine reason and outcome for spanking. There's more to spanking than most people know, and those who enjoy it have invented a variety of methods to torture the bad, and please the good, not to mention terminology for it all.

REASON TO SPANK

There are many reasons to spank another, but some have particular interests, or morals that come into play when spanking others. Spanking isn't for everyone though, and while spanking another without warning may yield surprising results, it can also end relationships, so proceed with caution. The best route is to discuss it with significant others, or even friends if close enough.

~To Punish~
If someone doesn't like spanking, that can make it an excellent method of punishing them. Spanking isn't for everyone though as I said, and may have a negative effect rather than a positive. For those it will work with though, they will learn from whatever mistake they've been punished for.

If a spanking is for punishment reasons, it can even have a proper effect on those that like spanking. Many enjoy spanking for fun, but when it comes to a punishment they may not be able to enjoy it because of the fact that it's for doing something bad.

~To Please~
Most find spanking a fetish, and a kinky way to enjoy themselves in the bedroom. They get a sexual thrill of of it, much like S&M in general. Some even use it as a precurser to sex, as a means to set the mood.

~To Relieve~
For some, spanking is just a form of stress relief. A bad day and a mountain of tension are relieved with a good bottom whacking, much like a massage but with more sting to it.

~To Laugh~
While spanking has a sexual purpose for most, it can also be a means to just have fun. Some people look at spankings with a sense of humor and enjoy a good laugh over them. It could be between friends just being silly with each other.

STRENGTH AND SPEED

How hard you spank determines the line between punishment and pleasure for every situation. There are different levels of strength when it comes to spankings based on how hard you smack.

-Pat: A pat to the bottom is so gently you barely even notice it. It may get a plump rear bouncing, or just be a playful gesture.
-Soft: Some people have a low pain tolerance, and as such a spanking can't be as hard for them, whether they enjoy it or not. A soft spanking will leave a light sting, but it takes much longer to do anything significant to the bottom, and who knows you may want the spanking to last a while.
-Medium: The average level of strength, based on how much strength you'd put into anything you'd normally do, unlike soft which requires you to be gentle.
-Hard: This requires you to put some effort into your smacks, and can easily be described as "giving everything you've got" and spanking with your maximum level of strength.

How fast you spank can be just as important as how hard you spank. The speed can be a fast paced merciless barrage, or a slow and steady dragged out session.

-Slow: Can differ when used with soft or hard spankings. When soft, a slow spanking can be a sensual and relaxing experience. When hard, it can give the bottom time to stop bouncing and reach a height of sting right before smacking again, which is a very effective form of spanking.
-Medium: Like strength, this is just an average level of speed without putting any real effort into going faster or slower.
-Fast: Like slow, this can differ in effect based on how hard you spank. If soft, while not painful, it can make the bottom sting and remain at a constant rate of sting as you pepper the bottom with blows. If your going to try spanking fast while spanking hard though, you'll need a lot of physical endurance, because as fast as you can reduce the spankee to a sniveling mass, you can also have a negative effect on yourself.

Spanking with your hand can leave as much sting in your palm as in the spankee's bottom. Any amount of spanking can be a real work out for your arm, but to reduce the sting to your own hand from flesh on flesh contact, there are also a variety of tools you can use to spank someone with.

IMPLEMENTS (SPANKING TOOLS)

From common household items to tools of the trade, implements are a very important aspect of spanking. While some think a hand is enough and anything else would be overboard, or just a much more sensual means to enjoy the experience, implements are used just as well for the same reasons, and allow you to spank much harder with less physical effort.

Some examples of common implements used include:
-Hairbrushes: Plastic or wooden, if it has a flat back, then a brush can basically be used like a miniature paddle. A fan favorite, due to it not being too big and painful, while still getting a stronger point across than a bare hand. A slight upgrade from the hairbrush would be a bathbrush, which is not only larger and stronger, it has a longer handle which some might find more convenient.

-Paddles: The most common and well known implement when it comes to a spanking, paddles actually come in a variety of forms to themselves. How thick a paddle is can determine it's strength when making impact with a bottom, and if it has holes that allows it to move faster as air flows right through it, allowing a swifter harder smack. Some sadistic folk enjoy paddles with studs, which while they do make the spanking harder they may cause bruising to the butt in question.

-Leather Belts and Straps: These have a very unique form of spanking for those on the recieving end. The leather can shape to the spankee's bottom upon impact, creating a massive amount of sting. Be careful though, because due to the welts that form when spanking with a belt, it can cause bruising faster than expected. Straps cover a large surface area, and due to not being as narrow as belts, will cause more sting over more area without as much bruising.

-Switches and Canes: The most sadistic implements known to spankees, these implements can actually be very dangerous if not used carefully. While many people enjoy the "stripes" across the spankees bottom these form, the welts from this form of spanking are actually worse than those from a belt. Rather than cause bruising, the incredibly thin switch or the incredibly thick cane can actually break the skin and cause bleeding. This may be fun for some, but if you don't want permanent damage to your bottom or to wear bandaids on your butt, I reccomend caution with these implements if not avoiding them completely.

-Wooden Spoons: A handy cooking utensil, for food, and bottoms. A popular implement among grandmothers, this implement can be used swiftly to cause a decent amount of sting. Even moreso if used after pulling it from a steaming pot of water. A smack from this may not be as hard as a brush, but it can be swung faster and more frequently.

-Carpet Beaters: A semi-popular implement at this point, carpet beaters are usually used for smacking carpets to relieve them of dirt. Someone got the bright idea to do the same thing to people's rears, and it has been a popular implement since.

There are practically hundreds of objects that can be used to spank someone with, including but not limited to: spatulas, flyswatters, tv remotes, dog leashes, newspapers, ping pong paddles, planks of wood, slippers, tennis rackets, towels, and rulers. Sometimes, though, just because you can spank someone with it doesn't mean it's a good idea. A perfect example of this is a boat oar, because more than one smack from this can cause more permanent damage than a cane. (If you would like a more detailed description on any of these implements mentioned in this paragraph, let me know and I will update the guide.)

POSITIONS

The position you spank someone in is crucial and important. There are actually a huge variety of positions you can spank and be spanked in, determined not just by the way your body can bend, but on the objects around you as well.

Here are some example of more commonly known spanking positions:
-OTK: By far the most common and used position in all of spanking, OTK stands for "Over The Knee". Simply bend someone over you knee and pin them there with your freehand, while spanking them with your other. Most prefer this from over the lap, due to it having the negative effect of a male's excitement poking into the spankee's stomach. Over the knee is an easy position to get someone into and hold them in. Not only that, but it's just basic knowledge, making it a go to favorite for most.

-Bent over object: Wether is be the edge of a bed, table, counter, a chair, or even the back of the couch, this position puts the spankee in a proper bent over position with their bottom presented, while also allowing the spanker to remain mobile. Because of this, this position is a go to second to OTK.

-Under Arm/ Over Shoulder: Either of these positions are commonly used to carry a resistent individual to a desired location. When spanking is added to the mix, it allows for discipline on the go, or just a means to humiliate and/ or mess with the one being carried.

-Standing: If it's posible to be spanked while laying over a lap, it's completely possible to be spanked standing up. A deciding factor on this one is hand placement. The one being spanked's hands will be out of the way, but they can be on their head, against a wall, or down to their toes, thereby altering the position slightly for one's desire.

-Legs Up: Also less popularly known as the "diaper position", this position require the one being spanked to first be laying on their back. Their legs will be lifted straight upward, putting their body at a ninety degree angle. To keep their legs here, the spanker may use his free hand to simply push the legs up, or grab their ankles. This position can be very exposion and humiliating.

-Bongo: Also known to some as the "wheelbarrow position", this is the only position more exposing and humiliating than legs up. To achieve this position, the spanker must first be sitting up. The spankee will have their back to the spanker, and their hands and face near/ on the floor. The spankee's legs will be on either side of the spanker's waist, presenting their bottom to their punisher like a pair of bongos, hence the name. This also forces their legs to be spread, having an exposing effect in the area between their legs .

There are a variety of positions to spank someone in. You can either look some up like some sort of spanking kamasutra, or just get creative with it. Light or heavy bondage can also be used to create a variet of positions, such as hanging from the ceiling, or having ones limbs tied to all four corners of a bed. The choice is yours, depending on your convenience and desire, or even how much you want to humiliate the one being spanked.

You don't have to resort to bondage to restrain the one being spanked though. For example, when the spankee is in the OTK position, if they try to cover their butt with their hands, you can grab their wrists and pin them to the small of their back. If they kick too much, you can also pin down their legs with one of your own. Just hope your stronger than the spankee, because if they resist, they can get very strong and violent.

HUMILIATION AND OTHER FORMS OF PUNISHMENT

This is where things get interesting. Many things can be mixed in with spanking, or used to make it a more humiliating experience for the spankee, whether they like it or not.

~Exposure~
The amount of clothing you leave on teh one being spanked is an important factor. Clothes can reduce the pain from a spanking. A lack of clothes deprives the spankee of not only protection, but modesty. Lowering or removing pants is most common, exposing the subjects undergarments. Lowering or removing underpants can leave a lot more on display, which can make a spanking more of a humiliating punishment, or a pleasurable experience.

If one wants to expose more butt without taking away the subjects modesty completely, they can simply give them a wedgie. With their underwear up between their cheeks, it leaves their full bottom on display, and nothing else unmentionable. At the same time, this can create an uncomfortable situation for the one being spanked, dur to the tension of their underwear between their legs.

Some ont he other hand simply go all the way and strip the one being spanked completely naked. Like anything else when it comes to spanking, this can be simply to punish and humiliate the one being spanked, or create a more erotic and sexual situation between lovers.

~Corner Time~
Also known as a time out, this is disliked by many due to the idea behind it. Being put in a corner like a small child and being told to stand there and think about what they did, perhaps with the addition of not being able to rub their sore bottom or incur more punishment, it can be a very humiliating experience.

~Soap~
Usually used on one who has spoken profannity, sticking soap in the one being punished's mouth, before or after a spanking, can be a disgusting experience for them. To increase it's effectiveness, one can rinse and lather the soap, causing it to give off suds.

~Public~
When you have an audience for you spanking, wether it be a small group of friends, or a food court full of civilians, getting a spanking in public can be both extremely humiliating for the spankee, or a massive thrill ride.

~Wet~
A wet spanking is most common when it comes to swimming, but can also be created through pouring water on the spankee's rear. Moisture actually makes the spanking louder, and sting more. So if you want to make sure that it doesn't sting as much spanking someone fresh out of the pool or ocean, use a towel or something to dry off their bottom before hand.

~Lotion and Icepacks~
While ice packs are sometimes used to cool spanked bottoms and reduce the swelling from all the smacks, the most effective thing you can use to soothe a spanked bottom is lotion. Lotion is a cold cream that will reduce heat and sting, not to mention it's good for making skin healthy and smooth anyways. On the other hand, a small handful of people use lotion "before" a spanking, not just to get it smooth and shiny, but to simulate the effect of water and make the spanking sting more.

This will be updated regularly with more information on spanking as I have time to write it or more information comes to light. Expect regular updates in the future.