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Description Peace be to you,

The sayings of the prophet of Islam, Mohammed -peace be upon him- are full of wisdom. and if someone follows them as guidelines of his/her life, he/she will succeed in this world and the hereafter.
I decided, in sha'Allah (God willing), to make a collection of artworks featuring the sayings of the prophet to let people know this man better. I hope you enjoy them.


In Islam, sponsoring an orphan is a great righteous deed and a good and praiseworthy action. An orphan himself, Muhammad paid special attention to the care of children. He himself adopted a former slave and raised him with the same care as if he were his own son.

However, the Qur'an gives specific rules about the legal relationship between a child and his/her adoptive family. The child's biological family is never hidden; their ties to the child are never severed. The Qur'an specifically reminds adoptive parents that they are not the child's biological parents:

"...Nor has He made your adopted sons your (biological) sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way. Call them by (the names of) their fathers; that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if you know not their father's (names), (call them) your brothers in faith, or your trustees. But there is no blame on you if you make a mistake therein. (What counts is) the intention of your hearts. And Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful."
(The Holy Qur'an 33:4-5)

The guardian/child relationship has specific rules under Islamic law, which render the relationship a bit different than what is common adoption practice today. The Islamic term for what is commonly called adoption is kafaalah, which comes from a word that means "to feed." In essence, it describes more of a foster-parent relationship. Some of the rules in Islam surrounding this relationship:

An adopted child retains his or her own biological family name (surname) and does not change his or her name to match that of the adoptive family.
An adopted child inherits from his or her biological parents, not automatically from the adoptive parents.
When the child is grown, members of the adoptive family are not considered blood relatives, and are therefore not mahrim to him or her. "Mahrim" refers to a specific legal relationship that regulates marriage and other aspects of life. Essentially, members of the adoptive family would be permissible as possible marriage partners, and rules of modesty exist between the grown child and adoptive family members of the opposite sex.
If the child is provided with property/wealth from the biological family, adoptive parents are commanded to take care and not intermingle that property/wealth with their own. They serve merely as trustees.

These Islamic rules emphasize to the adoptive family that they are not taking the place of the biological family -- they are trustees and caretakers of someone else's child. Their role is very clearly defined, but nevertheless very valued and important.

It is also important to note that in Islam, the extended family network is vast and very strong. It is rare for a child to be completely orphaned, without a single family member to care for him or her. Islam places a great emphasis on the ties of kinship -- a completely abandoned child is practically unheard of. Islamic law would place an emphasis on locating a relative to care for the child, before allowing someone outside of the family, much less the community or country, to adopt and remove the child from his or her familial, cultural, and religious roots. This is especially important during times of war, famine, or economic crisis -- when families may be temporarily uprooted or divided.


The prophet Mohammed -peace be upon him- said: “I and the person who looks after an orphan will be in Paradise together like these two.” and He Put His Index And Middle Finger Together.

he also said: "Whoever caresses the head of an orphan (in affection), solely for the sake of God, a good deed will be written to his account for every hair over which he passed his hand..."

A man once came to the Messenger of God -peace be upon him-, and complained that he feels hardness in his heart. The Messenger of God said: "Would you like that your heart becomes soft and that you acquire what you need? Be merciful with the orphan, pat his head and feed him from what you eat. This will soften your heart, and enable you to get what you need."

The Prophet said, "Avoid the seven great destructive sins." They (the people) asked, "O God's Apostle! What are they?" He replied, "To join partners in worship with God; to practice sorcery; to kill the life which God has forbidden except for a just cause (according to Islamic law); to eat up usury (Riba), to eat up the property of an orphan; to give one's back to the enemy and freeing from the battle-field at the time of fighting and to accuse chaste women who never even think of anything touching chastity and are good believers."


That's all for today. my friends, I hope you could learn something new.

Peace be to you...


FROM THE SAME COLLECTION:
#01: Planting Trees: [link]
#02: Learning: [link]
#03: Good deeds: [link]
#04: the best of you: [link]
#05: Animal care: [link]
#06:Getting Angry: [link]
#07:Cleanliness is from Faith: [link]
#08:Care for the orphans:
#09:Visiting the sick: [link]
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Comments: 121

zaidun [2012-12-04 00:02:14 +0000 UTC]

I love your thought, Actually, this is the real Islam, rahmatan lil alamiin.
[peace in diversity makes diversity in peace]

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miki94 [2012-04-30 01:59:34 +0000 UTC]

What if a non-believer cares for an orphan?

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Nayzak In reply to miki94 [2012-04-30 02:19:02 +0000 UTC]

it's cool.

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miki94 In reply to Nayzak [2012-04-30 02:24:55 +0000 UTC]

I meant to ask, can they go to heaven, according to Islam?

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Nayzak In reply to miki94 [2012-04-30 02:38:22 +0000 UTC]

According to Islam, there are 2 conditions to go to heaven:
a- Faith.
b- Work.
Faith means someone has to believe in Allah, the God.
Work means someone's good deeds outnumber his bad deeds.

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clovercarmen5 [2011-12-07 22:22:33 +0000 UTC]

so if a father adopts a girl as she grows up.. she has to wear the hijab in front of him and the same thing vice versa?

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Nayzak In reply to clovercarmen5 [2011-12-08 04:52:54 +0000 UTC]

yep. since they are not mahram.

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clovercarmen5 In reply to Nayzak [2011-12-08 05:14:06 +0000 UTC]

but what if the orphan boy was 4 years and he grew up with the adoptive mother and they r so close u know she gives him bath and changes his clothes.. does it still considered that when he grew up he becomes mehrim to her? and vice versa?

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Nayzak In reply to clovercarmen5 [2011-12-08 05:15:38 +0000 UTC]

yes. and they can even marry. so she has to wear her hijab in front of him when he reaches puberty.

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clovercarmen5 In reply to Nayzak [2011-12-08 05:19:43 +0000 UTC]

no no i mean she is 23 and when she took care of him he was 4 years old i mean does it still considered mihrim?

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Nayzak In reply to clovercarmen5 [2011-12-08 05:35:34 +0000 UTC]

if he is 4, he is still too young. she doesn't need to wear Hijab. but when he reaches puberty (he understands the difference between male and female), then she has to wear her hijab in front of him.

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clovercarmen5 In reply to Nayzak [2011-12-08 06:07:38 +0000 UTC]

but wearing hijab is for someone who u don't relate.. but what if they have a mother/son bond even when he grows up will she still be wearing hijab infront of him when he hits peuberty?

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Nayzak In reply to clovercarmen5 [2011-12-08 07:28:31 +0000 UTC]

"but wearing hijab is for someone who u don't relate"
exactly. and since the boy is not mahram, they shouldn't behave like mahram.

"but what if they have a mother/son bond even when he grows up will she still be wearing hijab infront of him when he hits peuberty?"
yes. because first, she is not his real mother. even if she takes good care of his like her son. he is not her biological son. which means, there is no blood relationship between them. the bond between them is not a mahram bond. so they are not related by blood.
second, this is not a law made by me or someone else. it's the law of Allah. and he knows human nature best. in order to avoid all kinds of temptations and evil, Allah required Muslims to do certain things and not to do certain things. if they don't want to disobey Allah, they should observe the hijab between themselves. this is for their own best.

and Allah knows best.

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Shamaroth In reply to Nayzak [2013-12-06 19:30:52 +0000 UTC]

So if they marry, she can take her Hijab off again? (infront of him, in privacy I mean)

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Nayzak In reply to Shamaroth [2013-12-19 22:18:35 +0000 UTC]

yep.

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danteas [2011-11-06 03:38:40 +0000 UTC]

I'm not a muslim, but I have been seriously interested in the religion and from what I have read I'm very impressed by your art work peace be upon and all good you do.

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spazzoi In reply to danteas [2011-12-06 20:32:55 +0000 UTC]

this is our relegion, this is ISLAM

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Nayzak In reply to danteas [2011-11-06 07:52:55 +0000 UTC]

I am glad my artworks are beneficial to you, friend.
Peace be to you too.

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spazzoi In reply to Nayzak [2011-12-06 20:33:59 +0000 UTC]

good sayings

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Seanbean80 [2011-09-18 17:22:24 +0000 UTC]

muslim has most orphan than no muslim orphan

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xAlalax In reply to Seanbean80 [2012-12-04 14:06:59 +0000 UTC]

what does that even mean?

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0-mariam-0 [2011-06-04 08:08:29 +0000 UTC]

sooooo cute (I like the old man reminds me of my grandfather )

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drivanmoffitt [2011-04-30 21:07:59 +0000 UTC]

peace is peace, Islam is it too but why are the fendofucks not promoting these messages?

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Nayzak In reply to drivanmoffitt [2011-04-30 21:10:08 +0000 UTC]

why don't you ask them?

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drivanmoffitt In reply to Nayzak [2011-04-30 21:14:55 +0000 UTC]

that's the thing they kill me before i could

I'm a Atheist and i love anyone as long as their not any of those Fundofucks

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Nayzak In reply to drivanmoffitt [2011-04-30 21:17:13 +0000 UTC]

I couldn't find your "word" in the dictionary.

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drivanmoffitt In reply to Nayzak [2011-04-30 21:18:39 +0000 UTC]

I know i made it up

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Nayzak In reply to drivanmoffitt [2011-04-30 21:22:38 +0000 UTC]

and it means...?

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drivanmoffitt In reply to Nayzak [2011-04-30 21:24:23 +0000 UTC]

"fundamentalist Fucks"

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Nayzak In reply to drivanmoffitt [2011-04-30 21:26:44 +0000 UTC]

I guessed so.

anyway, I prefer if you try to keep your language civilized in my pages. don't give a bad image of Atheists.

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drivanmoffitt In reply to Nayzak [2011-04-30 21:28:55 +0000 UTC]

oh sorry sir
but I hate people who forces people to believe their ideas this goes for anyone Atheist, Christian, Muslim, Jewish ANYONE

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Nayzak In reply to drivanmoffitt [2011-04-30 21:34:55 +0000 UTC]

I also don't like them.
I am not forcing anyone to believe in my ideas. I never ask people to come to my page. but when they come, they are always welcomed, no matter what's their religion (or no-religion). ^_^

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drivanmoffitt In reply to Nayzak [2011-04-30 21:49:12 +0000 UTC]

yeah peace be with you and Allah

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Recordeddays [2011-03-08 00:00:47 +0000 UTC]

Subhanallah, syukran

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Jansay [2011-02-26 15:43:14 +0000 UTC]

اريد ان اري هذا الحيدث في العربيه

هل يمكن ان تعطيني رابط؟

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agent-ea [2011-02-09 01:16:12 +0000 UTC]

i featured ur illustration in my blog here [link]
so that muslims and non muslims can benefit from it
i shall gladly remove it if u do not like me posting it
jazakallah~

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BeebDweeb [2011-02-05 08:02:31 +0000 UTC]

Is there a ruling for a non-adoptive family sponsoring an orphan in another country? (For example WorldVision) Is it allowed?

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bishop2z3z [2011-02-03 14:39:49 +0000 UTC]

Interesting rules

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ibl00d [2011-02-03 09:18:58 +0000 UTC]

peace be upon him

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evildavs [2011-01-25 23:04:59 +0000 UTC]

kawaii

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XxEviLVaMpiReBuNnYxX [2011-01-21 04:17:00 +0000 UTC]

Very interesting. ^^ I have a few questions though, concerning the seven great destructive sins. Could you explain the meanings of "To join partners in worship with God" and "to eat up usury (Riba)"? I would like to understand better.

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Nayzak In reply to XxEviLVaMpiReBuNnYxX [2011-01-21 05:09:04 +0000 UTC]

Peace be to you,
To join partners in worship with God: to be polytheist worshipping God (the real one) and other gods. in Islam, we believe there is only one true God. we call him Allah. all others are man-made and don't exist. if someone worships Allah, the true God, he is called Unitarian (and Muslim as well). if someone worships Allah, and also worships other Gods (for example, Athena, Ishtar or Quetzalcoatl), this person is joining partners in worship with God. and God warned those people that he's going to punish them in the hereafter.
Even thought it's considered one of the greatest sins, if someone repents before his death, God will forgive him and remove his sin completely.


to eat up usury (Riba): Islam is against lending money at interest: usury is strictly forbidden. it's considered an illegal way to get(lose) money. eat up usury means eating food bought by the money earned through usury. I give you an example:
A person A lends X amount of money to person B. but B has to return X+Y (Y: interest). the Y here is considered Usury and it's forbidden. A, by taking Y, is taking forbidden money. whatever he buys with that money is not blessed by God. and he is sinning by getting that money. it doesn't matter if it's 1 dollar or 1 million dollar.

in the opposite side, God blesses wealth whose owner gives Charity to the poor. and God will increase his wealth.

you may think "but all banks nowadays deal with interest?". that's true. and that makes all banks illegal in the Islamic view.
but I heard there are some Islamic banks that doesn't deal with interest. they lend you X money, you return X money.

Hope that helps. ^_^

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XxEviLVaMpiReBuNnYxX In reply to Nayzak [2011-01-23 04:49:47 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much! That was very informative and I feel like I understand the passage better now.

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Nayzak In reply to XxEviLVaMpiReBuNnYxX [2011-01-23 05:33:14 +0000 UTC]

I am glad I could help. ^_^

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jsplollypop In reply to Nayzak [2011-01-22 03:56:14 +0000 UTC]

Sorry to jump in on the conversation, but while reading your explanation (it stops me from asking repeated questions) I came up with something.
You said that when a person takes interest money, that is forbidden, but if he/she gives money to Charity, he/she is blessed.

What if a person gives interest money to Charity? Is it a paradox or does that mean it's not a sin, since the money was being taken for a good purpose?

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Nayzak In reply to jsplollypop [2011-01-22 05:04:20 +0000 UTC]

well, your question reminds me of this: "what if I steal money from a thief and give it as charity to the poor?". in Islam, we don't have the saying "purpose justifies the means". someone has to choose good means for a good purpose. not bad means for a good purpose.

as for your question, I heard 2 different opinions:
1- some scholars said that the muslim shouldn't take the interest money since it's unlawful. if possible, someone can choose not to get interest when applying for the bank account. if not possible, he just leaves it and doesn't touch it.
2- the second opinion is to give the interest money to the poor or needy. but not to expect any reward from God for doing so. why? because God will not consider it as charity simply because it's unlawful money. charity has to be given from lawful money in order to get the reward and blessing from it.

hope that helps...

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cj-jallad [2011-01-20 16:58:10 +0000 UTC]

peace be upon him

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Garassi [2011-01-19 23:08:38 +0000 UTC]

Good point about caring for orphans.

I have a question.

"To join partners in worship with God" as one of 'seven great destructive sins' is pretty confusing. I probably don't understand this, but I thought Allah is just another name for God, correct?

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Nayzak In reply to Garassi [2011-01-20 00:04:32 +0000 UTC]

peace be to you,

yes, "Allah" is the Arabic name of God. God is the only God creator of universe and everything. To join partners in worship with him means to worship God and other fabricated gods. which means being polytheist. for example, if someone worships Ishtar or Baal or Quetzalcoatl besides God, that makes him fall in this sin.

I'd like to add that the word "Allah" is different from the word "God". the word "Allah" has no gender (is not masculin nor feminin), it has no plural. while the word "God" has a feminin form (goddess) or plural (gods). that's why in Arabic, we prefer to use the word "Allah" to call God since it describes best the nature of God.

hope that helps...

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Garassi In reply to Nayzak [2011-01-20 00:56:33 +0000 UTC]

I see, thank you for answering my question - it helps.

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