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HAVENTHEORY [2012-04-05 14:16:43 +0000 UTC]
I'm sure that if you had asked him to share a glimpse of his life's struggle in the hopes that it could change someone like the unknowable way that it had changed him, he might have been fine with it, or even find joy that someone could think about him in such a way that even without one leg, he was still a person, that made a difference.
Don't hesitate to be bold and attempt to bring change, it could save someones life and you may never even know it, but be strong and try to summon the words to help them understand.
: )
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nnPhoto In reply to HAVENTHEORY [2012-04-05 23:37:10 +0000 UTC]
I guess I wasn't thinking that way. It's hard to put yourself in place of a person with such a disability. But I do believe that they'd rather others think of them as regular people and not to see the disability, or in this case, the missing leg. So for me to try to focus on that on this photo here might have hurt his pride in a way.
I agree though, it's one of the very first things you learn in street photography, to alway ask permission or at least show your pics to the people you took photos of. I just don't know why I hesitated with this one. Thanks for the comment though.
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HAVENTHEORY In reply to nnPhoto [2012-04-05 23:42:02 +0000 UTC]
Sure thing, and I'm not trying to criticize you, just so you know. I understand how hard it is to try to put yourself in their position, even for a second, because it would never come close to actually being in their position you know.
But he is still a person, and he may be missing a leg, but he isn't missing a heart.
: )
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VentusAngelus [2012-04-05 10:40:10 +0000 UTC]
the greatest photos are always the unexpected ones. I personally wouldn't have asked him, because that may make the photo look less realistic, losing its purpose.
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nnPhoto In reply to VentusAngelus [2012-04-05 10:42:55 +0000 UTC]
I kinda agree and don't agree at the same time. I do take some candid street shots from time to time but I always show the result to my subjects and wait for a little nod of agreement. But how can you approach someone with a disability with this? I just would like to know what people think..
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VentusAngelus In reply to nnPhoto [2012-04-05 10:48:37 +0000 UTC]
Sometimes words aren't always necessary. I'm honestly not too sure what I would do if I was to confront someone like this.
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