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As someone who grew up with the LGBT movement ((and being a tans female myself)) feel like i should share my thoughts on the subject at least once. but be warned i won't sugar coat this for you, there's no safe space for any topic i might bring up. this is raw and real.

Setting aside the mental health care system, the world doesn't owe you anything. your sexuality is not a currency, you can't use it to get away with being a shitty human being and expect everyone to just go along with it. you also can't use it as a means to just get whatever you want or to cancel someone you disagree with. your gender and sexuality in the light of the situation outside of the health care system means absolutely nothing. and though it would be nice of other people were courteous about your given gender and pronouns, you can't force people to do whatever you want them to do just because you think they should, assholes though they may be they still have the right to freedom of speech within guidelines of the law. they can call you whatever they wish so long as they aren't threatening to harm you, or throwing around hate speech. and the moment you start taking that away is the moment you yourself become a dictator.

Pronouns are not genders, genders are the name given to the two sexs of our species to make it easy to categorize people on paper so that doctors know what to look for when you need to be seen, the idea of genders being socially constructed is true, but the idea that you can simply construct genders of your own because of that fact is bullshit. you cannot physically be both or neither gender, if you believe you are i would seriously consider looking into therapy to try and understand why it is you feel that way. because as much as you might want it to feel normal it isn't. it shouldn't be glorified or celebrated in any capacity ether, the mentality that celebrating personal problems should be something we celebrate makes those issues seems less dangerous then they actually are especially in terms of mental health. you are effectively creating the problem you're seeking to eliminate by making it look like a party instead of a life long struggle that will effect everything that you do from here on out, until they put you in a coffin and bury you six feet under.

Personally the modern LGBT movement can go and fuck itself and that is my perspective of it all.

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As someone who grew up with the LGBT movement ((and being a tans female myself)) feel like i should share my thoughts on the subject at least once. but be warned i won't sugar coat this for you, there's no safe space for any topic i might bring up. this is raw and real.

Setting aside the mental health care system, the world doesn't owe you anything. your sexuality is not a currency, you can't use it to get away with being a shitty human being and expect everyone to just go along with it. you also can't use it as a means to just get whatever you want or to cancel someone you disagree with. your gender and sexuality in the light of the situation outside of the health care system means absolutely nothing. and though it would be nice of other people were courteous about your given gender and pronouns, you can't force people to do whatever you want them to do just because you think they should, assholes though they may be they still have the right to freedom of speech within guidelines of the law. they can call you whatever they wish so long as they aren't threatening to harm you, or throwing around hate speech. and the moment you start taking that away is the moment you yourself become a dictator.

Pronouns are not genders, genders are the name given to the two sexs of our species to make it easy to categorize people on paper so that doctors know what to look for when you need to be seen, the idea of genders being socially constructed is true, but the idea that you can simply construct genders of your own because of that fact is bullshit. you cannot physically be both or neither gender, if you believe you are i would seriously consider looking into therapy to try and understand why it is you feel that way. because as much as you might want it to feel normal it isn't. it shouldn't be glorified or celebrated in any capacity ether, the mentality that celebrating personal problems should be something we celebrate makes those issues seems less dangerous then they actually are especially in terms of mental health. you are effectively creating the problem you're seeking to eliminate by making it look like a party instead of a life long struggle that will effect everything that you do from here on out, until they put you in a coffin and bury you six feet under.

Personally the modern LGBT movement can go and fuck itself and that is my perspective of it all.