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drvkos [2019-03-09 23:23:35 +0000 UTC]
that's nice
using!
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TheCartoonWizard [2018-08-25 15:17:28 +0000 UTC]
no matter how hard I try I can't think of anyone except myself
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Fearlesswolf22 [2017-08-06 17:58:34 +0000 UTC]
Yeah, I can't help other people when I have a bad day, (Bad day as in Depression, some days just suck, not just feeling a little Depressed actual Depression) or worried if I will be kicked out, or broke, or have no food etc.
I have tried but it just doesn't help anyone, so when my life permanently improves I will be able to do more to help others.
That is not selfish, I am making sure I'm okay, alive etc. so I can help other people. (Because if I'm not okay myself, how would I be able to help other people?)
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MadKingFroggy [2017-07-15 01:02:45 +0000 UTC]
It sort of is in a sense... by choosing to look after yourself, you're spending time away from others and are focusing on benefiting solely the self.
But it's important to remember that there's nothing wrong with being a little bit selfish. There is something wrong with being selfish in excess though.
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pastelpink-fuckery In reply to MadKingFroggy [2017-07-15 01:20:21 +0000 UTC]
err, not really? you can focus on yourself, while not ignoring or neglecting others.
for instance, I, personally, am working on bettering myself in the aspect of understanding my personality disorder, but that doesn't mean I am neglecting my boyfriend and his mental illnesses just because I am spending time on my own as well. while some people do have trouble focusing on more than one thing or person, most are able to manage focusing on multiple things or people <3
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MadKingFroggy In reply to pastelpink-fuckery [2017-07-15 11:59:58 +0000 UTC]
You can't, by definition, focus on yourself without ignoring someone. By typing the comment you've typed, you've spent your time doing that rather than by helping raise money to starving African children.
Any and every action that we take in a sense could be considered selfish under enough analysis. The thing is, being selfish simply isn't a bad thing. It is an excess of selfishness that is bad.
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pastelpink-fuckery In reply to MadKingFroggy [2017-07-16 17:07:51 +0000 UTC]
This honestly made me laugh. Good job showing the fact you're a truly one sided human being dear.
It is not neglectful, or ignoring, someone just to focus on something else for a short period of time, let alone when it is litewrally something such as your own physical or mental health, that is absolutely fucking pathetic to think you cannot focus some time on yourself without ignoring someone else. Nobody needs someone focused on them 24/7, that's called being an attention whore and often being manipulative to act like they deserve such constant attention.
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Randamu-Chan [2017-06-09 19:56:53 +0000 UTC]
Thank you~<3
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