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I can't drill this into people's heads enough.

So, before any over obssessive Yaoi fans get angry and start calling me a homophobe, I'd like to point out some things before I start[That I will be building on in this];

No, I do not mean all Yaoi fans are like this. One of my best friends is a Yaoi fan, and she is chill as fuck. This is only a message to the over obsessive kind.
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Yes, this also goes for over obsessive Yuri fans. The reason I put down Yaoi in particularly is because they are much more wild than Yuri fans. Yuri fans also don't call you a homophobe if you insult their ship

Anyway

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Yes, I know I've covered this topic a lot, but really I cannot stop hating these types of Yaoi fans.

You know the kind. The teen girls, that fantasize, romanticize and fetishize male relationships. The ones that call you homophobes if you insult their ship. The ones that call themselves LGBT supporters, yet all they really do is read manga. Those kind.

I cannot fathom how much I despise them... Now, if you are like this, I am not saying you should stop reading Yaoi. What I'm saying, is stop doing all of the above. It only makes the Yaoi community look worse, and gives the good fans a bad name.

I tend to see a lot of these type of fans complaining about the hate they get... And yeah, some of it is bad, but if you're getting complaints about what you're doing, then chances are you should reanalyze what you're doing and change some shit.

And what I mean by complaints such as regarding your attitude toward others, what you're posting on shit, Etc etc... If it's just a 'Ur gay' comment or some shit, then just ignore it.

I should probably elaborate on what I showed in the picture...

Well, What I mean by this, is those young hormonal teen girls that label themselves as 'LGBT supporters', but then all they do is masturbate to gay porn, harass REAL life gays, and then ignore everyone else.

Don't believe me when I say they tend harass real life gays? Allow me to read you a story, little ones.

I'm friends with this one girl[Who also tends to read a bit of Yaoi manga], who had told me this story about someone she used to be friends with. Now, she is a big LGBT supporter, and will do anything to help people apart of the community feel comforted around others and herself. Now, when she was in middle school, she saw these two guys holding hands[It might've been hugging or something, I can't remember the specifics-]. They looked nervous about it, so she had given them a thumbs-up and nodded in a friendly way. Then, she had told the friend she mentioned earlier about it. Then, the girl had went up to the boys and started chanting "Yaoi yaoi yaoi sex!". Then, the two boys were not seen holding hands or anything after that. She had scolded her friend about it, and due to other personal shit[Including this situation], they had stopped being friends.

Now, I repeat, I do not believe all Yaoi fans are like this, or are labeling them as that, but it's a fact that there are people like this. I know people are going to comment 'Oh WeLl ThAt'S jUsT oNe PeRsOn'. How do you know that? The Yaoi community is huge, how can you be certain there are others out there like that?

And, I'm not saying you need to harass these people if they are being this way, as that would just make us one and the same with the problem, but if you find someone like this, it would be ideal to politefully inform them about this subject.

In the midst of all this seriousness, allow me to tell you another story. It's funny this time, I swear.

So, there was this blog post about how 'OhH, all teen girls LOVE Yaoi!", to which I commented "As a teen girl, I object this mindset. Yuri is fantastic"[As a joke, mind you]. And then I get a reply "You only like Yuri cuz your a lesbian". I legitimately started crying, not because it upset me or anything, it was just SO damn stupid. Sure, I'm open to dating women, but that isn't the point. They literally just implied that any girl that doesn't like Yaoi is a lesbian, I just love it so much.

Anyway, let's get back onto the original topic.

So, that kinda segways itself into another issue with over obsessive Yaoi fans. The thought that Yuri is disgusting. OH dear lordy me, out of all their mindsets, this is the one I hate the most. Mostly because I dated a girl a while back, but I'm not going to get Biased into this-

So, one of the reasons I hate it so, is it can discourage real life lesbians to coming out, in the fear people might find her disgusting. The reason I know this, is because I feel like this at times. Even if I'm not a lesbian, what if I get a girlfriend in the near future? Will people think I'm disgusting? This is the problem with this mindset. If you don't enjoy Yuri, fine. You don't have to like it. But there is absolutely no reason to call it disgusting. And then, when someone calls some unhealthy Yaoi relationship disgusting, they start throwing around 'HOMOPHOBE!', when in reality, they are the homophobe. Similarly to how liking Yaoi or Yuri doesn't make you a LGBT supporter, liking Yaoi or Yuri also doesn't make you exempt from being a homophobe.

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I get the feeling someone's going to say "Oh, well ur making this post now, so HAH ur a homophobe too!", so just in case, here's my premade defense;

I am not insulting Yaoi. Well, I kinda am, but only the really fucking horrible Yaoi. You know, like those Yaoi mangas that have molestion and rape, and somehow gets popular as a 'perfect relationship'. I mean, sure, I write about rape, but at least I acknowledge it's bad, people. Erm, I got off topic- What I'm talking about is the Yaoi fans. Yaoi wasn't too bad to begin with; It's the fans that made it god awful. Addressing this topic does not at all make me a homophobe.

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Yeah yeah, I know the drawing is bad, but I rushed it in about 4 or 5 minutes, gimme a break.

Description
I can't drill this into people's heads enough.

So, before any over obssessive Yaoi fans get angry and start calling me a homophobe, I'd like to point out some things before I start[That I will be building on in this];

No, I do not mean all Yaoi fans are like this. One of my best friends is a Yaoi fan, and she is chill as fuck. This is only a message to the over obsessive kind.
and
Yes, this also goes for over obsessive Yuri fans. The reason I put down Yaoi in particularly is because they are much more wild than Yuri fans. Yuri fans also don't call you a homophobe if you insult their ship

Anyway

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Yes, I know I've covered this topic a lot, but really I cannot stop hating these types of Yaoi fans.

You know the kind. The teen girls, that fantasize, romanticize and fetishize male relationships. The ones that call you homophobes if you insult their ship. The ones that call themselves LGBT supporters, yet all they really do is read manga. Those kind.

I cannot fathom how much I despise them... Now, if you are like this, I am not saying you should stop reading Yaoi. What I'm saying, is stop doing all of the above. It only makes the Yaoi community look worse, and gives the good fans a bad name.

I tend to see a lot of these type of fans complaining about the hate they get... And yeah, some of it is bad, but if you're getting complaints about what you're doing, then chances are you should reanalyze what you're doing and change some shit.

And what I mean by complaints such as regarding your attitude toward others, what you're posting on shit, Etc etc... If it's just a 'Ur gay' comment or some shit, then just ignore it.

I should probably elaborate on what I showed in the picture...

Well, What I mean by this, is those young hormonal teen girls that label themselves as 'LGBT supporters', but then all they do is masturbate to gay porn, harass REAL life gays, and then ignore everyone else.

Don't believe me when I say they tend harass real life gays? Allow me to read you a story, little ones.

I'm friends with this one girl[Who also tends to read a bit of Yaoi manga], who had told me this story about someone she used to be friends with. Now, she is a big LGBT supporter, and will do anything to help people apart of the community feel comforted around others and herself. Now, when she was in middle school, she saw these two guys holding hands[It might've been hugging or something, I can't remember the specifics-]. They looked nervous about it, so she had given them a thumbs-up and nodded in a friendly way. Then, she had told the friend she mentioned earlier about it. Then, the girl had went up to the boys and started chanting "Yaoi yaoi yaoi sex!". Then, the two boys were not seen holding hands or anything after that. She had scolded her friend about it, and due to other personal shit[Including this situation], they had stopped being friends.

Now, I repeat, I do not believe all Yaoi fans are like this, or are labeling them as that, but it's a fact that there are people like this. I know people are going to comment 'Oh WeLl ThAt'S jUsT oNe PeRsOn'. How do you know that? The Yaoi community is huge, how can you be certain there are others out there like that?

And, I'm not saying you need to harass these people if they are being this way, as that would just make us one and the same with the problem, but if you find someone like this, it would be ideal to politefully inform them about this subject.

In the midst of all this seriousness, allow me to tell you another story. It's funny this time, I swear.

So, there was this blog post about how 'OhH, all teen girls LOVE Yaoi!", to which I commented "As a teen girl, I object this mindset. Yuri is fantastic"[As a joke, mind you]. And then I get a reply "You only like Yuri cuz your a lesbian". I legitimately started crying, not because it upset me or anything, it was just SO damn stupid. Sure, I'm open to dating women, but that isn't the point. They literally just implied that any girl that doesn't like Yaoi is a lesbian, I just love it so much.

Anyway, let's get back onto the original topic.

So, that kinda segways itself into another issue with over obsessive Yaoi fans. The thought that Yuri is disgusting. OH dear lordy me, out of all their mindsets, this is the one I hate the most. Mostly because I dated a girl a while back, but I'm not going to get Biased into this-

So, one of the reasons I hate it so, is it can discourage real life lesbians to coming out, in the fear people might find her disgusting. The reason I know this, is because I feel like this at times. Even if I'm not a lesbian, what if I get a girlfriend in the near future? Will people think I'm disgusting? This is the problem with this mindset. If you don't enjoy Yuri, fine. You don't have to like it. But there is absolutely no reason to call it disgusting. And then, when someone calls some unhealthy Yaoi relationship disgusting, they start throwing around 'HOMOPHOBE!', when in reality, they are the homophobe. Similarly to how liking Yaoi or Yuri doesn't make you a LGBT supporter, liking Yaoi or Yuri also doesn't make you exempt from being a homophobe.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I get the feeling someone's going to say "Oh, well ur making this post now, so HAH ur a homophobe too!", so just in case, here's my premade defense;

I am not insulting Yaoi. Well, I kinda am, but only the really fucking horrible Yaoi. You know, like those Yaoi mangas that have molestion and rape, and somehow gets popular as a 'perfect relationship'. I mean, sure, I write about rape, but at least I acknowledge it's bad, people. Erm, I got off topic- What I'm talking about is the Yaoi fans. Yaoi wasn't too bad to begin with; It's the fans that made it god awful. Addressing this topic does not at all make me a homophobe.

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Yeah yeah, I know the drawing is bad, but I rushed it in about 4 or 5 minutes, gimme a break.