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This self-portrait speaks about my hope for a joyful marriage, despite facing external challenges. As a kid influenced by anime, I jokingly vowed to only marry an Asian, lol. Surprisingly, that whimsical promise became reality, though I didn't foresee the complexities of cross-continental marriage—visa hurdles, stress, bureaucracy, and financial strains. I've learned the hard way that there are rules standing between you and your loved one from another part of the planet.

Now, let me be clear: I don't believe a piece of paper can define a relationship. True connection stems from a shared commitment, vulnerability, and shedding ego. Yet, in our imperfect system, paperwork becomes a necessity. I'm finding my way through this maze, hoping for a day when we're free from these constraints—free to be together without borders or bureaucratic barriers, like birds in the vast sky.

So, here I stand, yearning for the freedom to be with my partner, to build our home unhindered. Hope, they say, dies last, right?

Description
This self-portrait speaks about my hope for a joyful marriage, despite facing external challenges. As a kid influenced by anime, I jokingly vowed to only marry an Asian, lol. Surprisingly, that whimsical promise became reality, though I didn't foresee the complexities of cross-continental marriage—visa hurdles, stress, bureaucracy, and financial strains. I've learned the hard way that there are rules standing between you and your loved one from another part of the planet.

Now, let me be clear: I don't believe a piece of paper can define a relationship. True connection stems from a shared commitment, vulnerability, and shedding ego. Yet, in our imperfect system, paperwork becomes a necessity. I'm finding my way through this maze, hoping for a day when we're free from these constraints—free to be together without borders or bureaucratic barriers, like birds in the vast sky.

So, here I stand, yearning for the freedom to be with my partner, to build our home unhindered. Hope, they say, dies last, right?