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SallyVinter — Aces Wild - 18 - Sort-Of Asexual
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This really speaks to me.
I'm a gray asexual myself, and I don't feel bad about it. It feels much better because I very rarely fall in love with someone.
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Lmao yeah
You know, thank you, really
Thanks to your work, I finally realized what kind of creature I am
If only someone told me about aces earlier
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"Oh no, they're hot!" LOL that made me chuckle. The look on the first girl's face in the second panel made me chuckle, too. Like "Euahh! Where'd you come from wtf" lol
You have a charming art style. c:
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The more of us there are, the more we realize we're not all the same.
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Is it possible to be "sort of Demisexual"? Because sometimes I go thought periods of my life where I want nothing at all to do with sex but then what feels like a switch then turns in my head sometimes and then I feel like I can just go for days being really aroused by men and women, and then some days I don't care for sex at all in the least bit, maybe I just have a rather odd and dynamic sex drive
or what?
Further more I feel like some of these things mentioned in this comics series sorta applies to me, but not in such a black and white fashion. for example I can be strongly but briefly sexually attracted to someone before I get into a long term relationship but I never pursue such a thing because I value deep a meaningful relationships so much that I would be disgusted by the idea of have sexual relation with some one unless I knew them as the most closest friend in the world.
Also I can look at smut and find it a bit on turn on at time and yet other times I just can not handle it at all, my taste are in such a state of flux that I do not always know when I will be thinking from one moment to another. oh well if some one can tell me what is going on with me I'd really like to know, cause at this point the only thing I know for sure is that I am pansexual and have Asperger syndrome, but I may also have hints of what seems like Demisexuality from time to time, is that even possible?
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It sounds like you sexuality is very fluid instead of set which is perfectly fine and normal.
Plenty of asexuals aren't sex repulsed. I myself am selectively sex repulsed. It has to do with the presentation and the medium, but as for having sex myself? I have no interest.
You may be Greyasexual or Greysexual, but you may also be as you choose to identify - Pansexual. Nobody is raring for sex 24/7, but what's important is your understanding of yourself and how you choose to identify. There are also a lot of things I address in these comics that aren't solely applicable to asexuals. They're somewhat universal, but they're a large part of the Asexual experience because of the Lack or Dimness of feeling Sexual Attraction.
I identify as an Asexual Biromantic. Although, my Bi-ness definitely has a slant towards women in the past decade it's still what I'm most comfortable calling myself (Though I will also say "I'm Gay, or Queer for shorthand when I don't feel like explaining in depth)
If your interested in learning more about the Asexual Spectrum and seeing if it's what fits you most you can find a lot of information here: asexuality.org/ They have FAQs as well as stories & Experiences of Asexuals that you may find you relate to.
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Thank you replying to me, after much thinking about this subject and reading up on the asexuality.org and a lot of this seems to apply to me this particular piece really resonated with me asexuality.org/?q=node/40 , so I think I feel like using the term "Greysexual/Panromantic would not be inappropriate of a label for me right now, but I am still in the process of self discovery so I still have lots to fugue out about myself in regards of sexuality, and as you said my sexuality is very fluid so I could just be going though a phase in my life where I have little to no interest in sex.
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Don't forget, kids! If you are a gray asexual, aka, a gray ace, it is totally okay to tell people to address you as, "Your Grace."
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I am *so* telling one of my friends this. Your comment makes me sad I can't upvote or thumbs up a comment on DA. Kind of a shame "regular" asexuals can't use this title. But it wouldn't work the same. Gray Aces get the cool name, apparently >_<.
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Not originally my word play (saw it on a tumblr post), but I'm happy to pass it along!
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I'm really enjoying your Aces Wild comics. It's informative, cute, and funny all at the same time! As someone who isn't asexual, I really appreciate that you're educating us all about the asexual spectrum, so thank you for that (Also I've always loved your art <3)
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You sure manage to be informative and funny at the same time
I love the style, by the way.
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Your comics are simply awesome! Love them it's great to see someone spread so much awareness, not just asexuality but also that there're other ways you can be attracted to people which I think is an important thing to know for everyone
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As a Demisexual, seeing these comics honestly brightens my day! Please, keep up the great work!
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Demi as hell and feeling swell
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Awesome.
My eyes are so bad, I wish I could zoom in to read the small text ;__;
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I really love these comics.
The older I get the more I think I'm sliding into the Graysexual spectrum. But then again that might just be hormone cycles.
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I want to imagine you actually follow people to tell them asexual facts.
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Good to know there's a thing like this...before I was always confused of which spectrum I was in and people would look at me funny about it, I had a guy once tell me that I was too pretty to be not interested in any relationship but I explained that the concept of sex just doesn't interest me much, I have a very complicated emotion about that subject like it's either "I feel better doing it with either myself or with someone I know I really LIKE REALLY love because I want to show how much I deeply care and love that person and if that person feels that way."
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Ya know, these comics really help people who have doubts about their sexuality (me for example). I think it's great you started doing this!! The art is also lovely as well, although all of your art is amazing.
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Yeet YES YOU EXPLAINED IT WOOO
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